Zerozest

About Me:

Met a guy over coffee last week. He smiled, flirted. Said, “You look like an artist.” Am I, I wondered, or just a cliche?

He wanted to know what apps I used. Which way did I swipe? “I don’t,” I said. A few minutes later he enquired, “So…you are married, aren't you?” When I nodded, he was curious to discover if I preferred it that way. “It has its advantages,” I confirmed.

Did he appear to agree? Was that the end of his game? His eyes searched for me again and, when he got up to leave, he declared, “Everyone lies online and on a coffee table. So, thanks for being honest.”

He dropped a card on the table. It tells me his name, and that he’s in real estate.

If I contact him, what will I say? Do I play to his artist stereotype? Alternatively, if he found me on here, would he assume the lily was gilded?

Moved, I now contemplate an imagined affair here. In his honour, I might write something like this:

Today, the only guidance I can give you is that I know what I want but I am not sure what to say. Maybe nothing would be wiser. I could defer to the standard language, but those words are broken. What it boils down to is this: I want to have sex, I want to cheat and I would like to do this very soon, in a matter of 3 days at most. Yes, I do not feel the need to pretend I want to know you for ages then start giving irrelevant time that we can't even make possible. If you feel likewise, please let me know. At first glance, I fit the cheater stereotype. I author a love letter blog. I cry with relief when on screen lovers finally kiss, and I break when they do. Yet, being in marriage for a long time myself, I am not lonely. Nor do I crave coupledom. Indeed, I cannot say with any conviction what affairs, whether there will be a man to satisfy me fully, or if you have the energy to satisfy me. In truth, I can be cold and distant. Elusive. Some would say cruel; and they might be right. As a married woman, I can't always be set in my ways, and although I remain open to change, I tend to prefer how we meet on my own terms. Plus, I am not a go-getter. Neither am I motivated by ideology, self-improvement mantras, or must-see travel bugs. While I would prefer that we move away from where we both live for safety reasons, it will only bother me if you want to pick me in your own car infront of my husband's house or somewhere close to where I live. Ambition is mostly vanity, and I’m kind of almost over myself. Not tired or in despair. Not cynical or bitter. Just calm. Happy with less. With my own skin.

There is so much more to me, but I have to leave some things out for you to discover in a beautiful conversation.

And if something I wrote above does not resonate with you, don't write me off just yet, because it is only a different opinion and right now we all are at different stages in life, which doesn't mean that we would not be able to catch up or get along. Never judge anyone, especially if you never found out what the person is really about.

Ideal Partner:

The best thing that can happen to anybody in the bedroom is to find yourself with someone who feels a connection with you. In that moment, what you CAN give or receive is beyond expectation.

Listen! The best teacher in the bedroom is how you want each other. Nothing loosens up the body or guides its movement like the feelings of the individual involved. You’ve heard someone’s response to a bedroom session described as “lying there like a log of wood,” right? You would be surprised that that same “log of wood” could be FIRE in another setting.

Now, let get a bit serious here, if you want me to respond to your message, your first message to me should/must be about '' how long you've been on IE and how many affairs you are having with currently'' I am not looking for bed hoppers and if you are not ready to meet within a week, please move on to the next available woman. I will not respond to anyone sharing password with me on first message or asking for a chat on nothing specific however if you are a man who understands what I am trying to say that you are the type I want to send me a message now or what would life be if not to enjoy s*X. I am real, let's take off the masks! Life is to be lived. Not hidden away, but lived! To be seen and to see in a deeply intimate way with a cheating partner - that is bliss! I am not scared to do it (please be specific with me and don't waste my time trying to know me more than what I put out here) and also won't have it any other way. Let's get through our fears together. Let's find a place, book a hotel and meet

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Astrology / New Age, Music - Dance / Electronic, Politics, Cycling, Mountaineering

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