Playtime!

About Me:

I want to distract you from your respectable life 😉


Travel junkie, foodie , coffee addict, flirty & playful, a terrible but regular skier, a keen shot...rugby player …a bit of an adrenaline junkie :-)

Quick witted with a playful sense of humour - I don’t take myself too seriously, I am relaxed and don’t do drama. I also don't mess people around...or ghost . (never understood this - adult's say no thank you)

I am not looking for a hareem (who has the time!).

I know EXACTLY what I want (and do not) and who I am looking for. I will not compromise on that...despite the fact I am very lucky on here to get a number of lovely messages.

Home is on the rural Oxfordshire /Northamptonshire border , but work in London/from home + travel a bit. (mainly to the US )

I am time poor when it comes to travel (busy work/home life) , I would rather spend my time with you, than in the car to you...So ...London anytime (easy peasy) or an hour from Banbury in all directions is my limit.

Happiest in wellies at home messing about with the kids and dogs. I switch between muddy field and skyscraper well...

A tease and a flirt , but in the most delightful way, let loose …I will have you biting your lip😉.

I lead..I take charge , I make decisions and remove pressure and expectations.

Over the years I have experienced a great deal of variety , from the sensual and soft to the downright deviant.

This brings a dimension that can help you push your boundaries and introduce you to various elements you might be curious about . I want to know what excites you ….what intrigues you, what you want to explore. To say I have few inhibitions is an understatement ..


I rarely message people first unless it is glaringly obvious we share aligned interests and other boxes are ticked (I don't want to waste your time or mine).

If you send a VK or gift, this will only generate an automatic reply asking you to send a message. I don't look at or respond to gifts or VK's. Equally, if you have an autogenerated profile ...this tells me zilch...so if you message me...you need to expand a little or I am unlikely to respond. (been here a while...not a rant...just time poor and auto gen profiles are all the same)

Ideal Partner:

Bored/frustrated/lacking sexually, unfulfilled...with a need to explore. In need of general (not just sexual ) TLC, looking for erotic escapism, exploration and excitement ....something more meaningful than a brief hotel liaison where a guy fulfils his fantasy, and you are left wondering why you bothered.

Dinner, drinks , friends ....but riding off into the sunset is not an option.

I tend to be attracted to strong , intelligent, professional women with confidence, a bit of sass, who know themselves well.

Ages shown are preferences, not limits , a little above or below is good with me, as long as we share the same mindset.

I would prefer if you are married or in a long term relationship. If not, you must be good with the fact that I am, and that is not subject to change.

Other Interests:

Music - Country, Music - Blues/Jazz, Music - World, Ice / Snow Sports, Travel / Sightseeing, Food and Wine

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