SubtleAlpha

About Me:

Some are more discerning than others.

That's you.....and me !

Me in 3 words:
- Passionate
- Kind
- Authentic

Summary
Attached South Dorset (Poole area) male in a platonic relationship. Seeking one lady for more than sex, less than marriage !


I am a very passionate, great kisser, always smart, never a slob, calm kind polite gent. Athletic build, clean shaven, good personal hygiene, I look after my body - including my teeth - smell nice, have good manners, am reasonably articulate, good fun and enjoy good old fashioned laughter. I like giving big hugs - think gentle ex-Rugby player. In a nutshell i am a nice relaxed, easy-going randy chap who has a cheeky glint in his eye.

Frustrated as hell at the state of my love life (yep me and you too) i am here as a concerted attempt to do something about it. Namely to find you. Yes you !

We've all read about love languages. I am quite balanced in that i nearly equally value physical touch, quality time and words of affirmation. It's not just the physical bit.

Regarding the physical side of things, for what it is worth i rather excel at, and very much enjoy, giving oral sex. Way too many women have been let down by their husbands/partners who focus on their own selfish needs as a man and never give any real attention to their woman. That changes with me - for you. I very much enjoy seeing the lady I am with totally enjoying sex and loving the attention. So I am only interested in meeting a lady who enjoys receiving oral sex. There's more to life than that but there you have it, a statement of intent.

Discretion and trust are everything. If you assume we will enjoy sex on our 1st meeting then that is a flawed assumption. Our 1st meeting is a coffee/tea in broad daylight in a public place - safe for us both. A meeting to say hello and measure eachother up. To see if we click. Maybe the 2nd meeting is the same ! Why? We both need to be as sure as we can that the stranger we are meeting, with a view to potential intimacy, is someone we can trust. There is no rush.

When i find you then i will not be searching for another lady. And you, i hope, won't be searching for another man. If you do want to play the field then please be straight about it upfront as i don't want that so would rather not meet you.

Let's speak soon. I know it is a challenge to speak but i will try if you will.

Ideal Partner:

You are .....discreet, psychologically stable, clean, fun and have a sense of humour.

You are not desperate to jump into bed and you have no desire to "shag around" pardon the phrase.

There will only be 1 !

Other Interests:

Nature, Cars / Motorcycles, Gardening, Music - Classical / Opera, Music - Pop / R&B, Cycling, Football / Soccer / Rugby, Martial Arts, Singing / Playing Instrument, Dancing, Sailing / Boating, Tennis / Racket Sports, Computers / Internet, Theatre / Ballet, Cooking, Food and Wine

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