lechevalier

About Me:

I'm a widower, therefore single. I am here rather than a more conventional dating site because I have come to value my independence and am not looking for a new wife. I am seeking a good friend and lover: either a married woman who is dissatisfied with her marriage but does not wish to leave it; or a single or divorced lady who, like me, is happy with her independence and who, like me, seeks an intimate and close friendhsip. Ideally I would like this relationship to be reasonably long-term and exclusive to the two of us.

I enjoy classic literature, films, theatre, poetry and the visual arts. I like history, museums, galleries, churches, fine dining, travel and the countryside, classical, jazz, folk and country music. My knowledge of pop music ends around the close of the 1970s. If I were granted the gift of a time-travelling machine which I could use once and once only, I would travel to the New York jazz era of the 1920s and 30s, where I would fulfil a long-held, but thus far unachieved, ambition of learning to dance the Charleston.

I am a little over six feet tall with broad shoulders and not much hair left and a muscular build which I keep in shape with four times a week strength-training sessions.

Ideal Partner:

Having spent many years in a sexless marriage, while I miss sex, of course, it is so much more than that. I miss perhaps even more the physical, emotional and sensual delicacies that are so much part of the anticipative joy of lovemaking: hand-holding, gentle caressing, the long, slow lingering kisses: those things that infuse the spirit as well as the physical desire, and which my ideal partner would long for too. I am looking for someone who recognises, particularly in a relationship where meeting in person may be infrequent, the importance of keeping in touch with each other: savouring that sense of excited longing about receiving the next message - that heart-stopping moment when one sees a particular name pop up - a continual simmering of desire between physical meetings.

I am seeking a lady in her sixties to mid-seventies. I do not think I would suit a lady younger than about sixty but am quite willing to be proved wrong. We do not have to share every interest and attitude to life because neither of us is looking for a new life-partner. But we will be able to converse easily and intelligently with one another, share laughs, insights, ironies and many of the pleasures of life as we explore each other as people, friends and lovers.

Other Interests:

Nature, Arts / Crafts, Museums / Galleries, Music - Country, Music - Classical / Opera, Music - Blues/Jazz, Music - Latin, Politics, Literature / History, Cricket, Gym / Aerobics, Athletics, Dancing, Computers / Internet, Theatre / Ballet, Travel / Sightseeing, Movies / Cinema, Food and Wine

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