cardiff84m

About Me:

Life’s mostly smooth—good job, solid relationship—but lately, I can’t shake the feeling that something’s missing. That buzz of excitement. The anticipation of a message that makes your heart race. The slow burn of getting to know someone who just gets you.

I’m 40, based in North Cardiff. Long-term relationship (18+ years), no kids, and not looking to change my situation—or yours. What I am looking for is a discreet, meaningful FWB connection. Someone who’s also missing the thrill, the spark, the fire. One-night stands aren’t off the table, but I’d much rather build something deeper... something that keeps both our phones buzzing and our minds wandering during the day.

I’m 6'1", stocky, shaved head, blue eyes. Easy going and open-minded. I’ve got a wickedly dry sense of humour once you get to know me, and I’m not shy about diving into new experiences. I love film, great food, wine, music, trivia, the outdoors—all the usual good stuff.

Let’s start with some flirtatious chat, if the chemistry’s right? Let’s take it offline and really light things up.

Ready when you are.

Ideal Partner:

I’m looking for a partner-in-crime—someone who gets under my skin in the best way. Someone who makes my phone light up with excitement, not obligation. You don’t need to tick any boxes physically; I’m far more drawn to confident, intelligent, easy-going people who know what they want and aren’t afraid to say it.

What I’m really after is chemistry. That electric, slow-building tension. The kind that makes conversations linger and glances feel loaded. I want us both to feel that tingle—that pulse of anticipation when we talk, when we meet, when we touch.

Sexual connection is definitely part of what I’m after, but I’m in no rush. I love the teasing, the build-up, the way foreplay starts long before we’re in the same room. I’m very open-minded, curious, and up for exploring fantasies, boundaries, and everything in between—with trust, respect, and plenty of fun along the way.

Ideally, you're in or around Cardiff—close enough to make those casual drinks or "couldn’t-wait-any-longer" meetups a reality.

If that sounds like your kind of trouble… I’m all ears.

Other Interests:

Nature, Museums / Galleries, Gardening, Music - Alternative, Nightclubs / Clubs, Music - Rock, Hiking / Camping, Computers / Internet, Travel / Sightseeing, Movies / Cinema, Food and Wine

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