ThoughtfulDom

About Me:

Hi. Im james, 54. I'm predominantly an assertive man, but I possess an opposite side to me also. Hopefully i can say that ok and wont say anymore on the subject as the right lady will undoubtedly understand if she reads it. Right , thats out of the way!!

Didnt realise this would be so difficult , first time for everything i suppose.im' 6'1 blue eyes , brown hair, physically fit , and am happy with the way i look. Not for me to decide if im attractive or not really suppose, but im more than happy to send a pic if asked. I work part time now for lots of different reasons which im happy to disclose to anyone i get to meet. I like to be outside, to travel , to walk my dog. Im a keen good golfer, enjoying it again after a long lay off, i like to read, music, travel (although much less frequently than i used to ). I enjoy film, eating out, nice red wine but not the subsequent hangovers... i like it but am not very good at it !!! I live in the north of Scotland (Inverness ish) though i have family I’m other areas of Scotland, and I’m extremely happy to call the Highlands home.
I like to get away from it all when i can , love the mountains, the peace and quiet, but equally i like the noise and bustle and atmosphere of a night out when the mood takes me. If there is someone reading this who thinks they know where im coming from id love to hear from you and get to know you.

Thankyou.Well. I'm 6'1, 14 stone. Blue eyes. Physically fit. My hair is reasonably long thick and appropriately salt and peppery for a man my age, and at the moment im lucky enough to be able to say im unlikely to go bald, thick and lots of it! All my own teeth too at the moment. Best features? ...ouch , never thought about it before, but ive been told i have a nice smile. I like to wear my jeans and boots to walk for miles in , but also like to posh up properly when the occasion demands it.

Ideal Partner:

I've taken this step eventually after a lot of thought, so I’m happy as it were about what i want, need. Im ideally looking for just one special lady. As per my earlier introduction a submissive lady i suppose who is aware of her opposite side also, for something long term, meaningful, lasting, loving. I'm in a marriage that i dont want to and won’t leave and I definitely dont want something meaningless with a string of women , that much i do know, if that makes sense? ideally I would meet someone in a similar situation to myself, who is local to me , but i realise the world isn’t perfect (I’m writing this ad after all!) so I’m more than willing , happy, and able to travel regularly for the right lady. Hopefully she will have arrived at this place for the similar reasons to me and after much thought so she will be sure of herself and her wants and needs. She respects herself and her partner (that sounds strange), trust is very important. In terms of her appearance it doesn't matter at this stage does it? Not going to rush into anything anyway so we will have to get on anyway, and i certainly dont have a set type physically that i "go for" as it were.
Anyway, hopefully I’ve said enough but not too much, and am of course willing, happy to say more if needed :-). Thank you, look forward to hearing from you soon. James

Other Interests:

Nature, Arts / Crafts, Music - Alternative, Hiking / Camping, Golf, Travel / Sightseeing, Movies / Cinema, Cooking

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