Paradise Lost

About Me:

Crumbs the age thing really does creep up quickly. Now 57 almost 58 and very disillusioned and seeking to ignite some 'zing' into my secret life to offset a marriage that has become a very dry.

I'm open to either a long term relationship or short term arrangement - either way the important part is that it suits both parties.

Adore the excitement of meeting someone on a “first meet”, where it’s obvious that there is serious chemistry where the conversation flows easily, and the first meet ends with some seriously good kissing leaving us wanting the next time to come sooner.

I accept the toils of life that impact us mentally and physically. Thus there's no attempts to hide wrinkles, age lines or receding hairlines. Thus no ridiculous combovers here just a sensible Grade 1. So ladies if balding men ain't your type then there's no point asking for my PW.

But it has been said on many occasions that I am a great conversationalist and midly witty -- better to say that rather than claim to be something shy of a stand up comedian.

Certainly not overweight but have a reasonable in proportion "frame".... never been a gym freak. Walking the dog and the summer leisurely bike rides tend to be the limits unless it's a calorie burning session with an illicit encounter (wishful 🤔)

Here's a thought - if you are up with the technological age... and you have your music on your phone..if I asked you to randomly shuffle the songs what would the first 3 songs be and would they be guilty pleasures?

Anyway if that has given you enough and you are curious then ask for a mutual swap of PWs. At least have the common courtesy to respond either way. I'm starting to wonder about changing my user ID to "Complete Faith Lost" ..... ask away if you are curious why.

Ideal Partner:

There has to be a degree of irony in the words "ideal partner" on a Site like this surely? Ok here's a few things....

As a polite gent, I really appreciate those who take the time to drop me a message (even a brief Hello) as a VK or a straight forward 'photo password request' doesn't always cut it. Whilst some are here to enjoy virtual chats I would love to hear from those who would be happy to consider meeting one day should we get along.

I find a great sense of humour and intelligence very attractive. Physically I don't have a type.... I don't believe in setting parameters because you end up being all too easily disappointed.

I love to kiss.... a lot of kissing. Its the prelude to so many other intimate things.

Remember the "marmite factor" - you either love it or hate it. Its the same with that initial physical attraction. If we swap Pic PWs then, and I am not for you, then at least say so - I wont be offended. Alternatively if you're pathetic like a few are on here, you can always use the "block" function.

I have had an affair previously and I know and respect the necessary rules. My situation is that I can only meet daytimes - I know that doesn't suit everyone. I have a degree of travel flexibility so me travelling to you is possible.

Finally if are there any genuine, non-time wasting ladies out there then please make yourself known. If only to restore my limited faith in this Site!

Other Interests:

Football / Soccer / Rugby, Golf, Food and Wine

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