Breath of Fresh Air

About Me:

Who am I? I often ask myself that very same question! Maybe more to the point, am I whom I want to be? The answer is clearly, "no" or I wouldn't be here looking for a new illicit experience with its associated adventure and intrigue. If you find yourself thinking along the same lines then please read on. What else might you want to know about me? Well, I am recently retired; I have no offspring to put demands upon my time; I love to travel and almost always prefer to be outdoors than in (hope you have an umbrella?). On a more emotional level, I am a romantic with no current outlet for my desires. I wish to redress that. If you want to know more, you're going to have to ask. No virtual kisses please, I need to know that you consider me worth more than that. I know some ladies don't bother to reply to messages and I cannot excuse their discourtesy - I can only offer my own promise that if you take the trouble to write to me then I WILL reply. Not necessarily immediately, but you will hear from me. Tip: if you are thinking of sending me a gift then chocolate (preferably milk) would be appreciated much much more than slinky underwear.

My best feature must be my inquisitive mind. I could mention my sense of humour but this is a little dry for some tastes. I like to listen and am compassionate by nature. Come on, you're thinking, tell me about what you actually LOOK like. OK, well, if you really want to know, I'm not exactly the shape I'd like to be but then who is? I have curves, yes, but nothing out of place, extra or missing. I tend to think of myself as Miss Average although I have also been told that I'm very modest and actually score much higher than this. OK, if I must brag, then I have an infectious smile with a mischievous twinkle in my hazel eyes. My hair is dark although now it only remains so with a little help. I keep active, in ways that may surprise you. I dress smartly when necessary, smart-casual out, comfortable at home and in the garden I wear stuff that I'd be ashamed to be seen in anywhere else! Who doesn't? I like to make an effort to look good but I don't do high heels (sorry guys) nor stockings nor do I blow my wages at the makeup counter. I shalln't pretend, nor shall I hide - what you see really is what you get.

Ideal Partner:

Like nearly everyone here, I wish to feel both desire, and desired but at the moment I feel neither. Are you the same? I need to know that someone out there wants me to be happy and is prepared to put some effort into making that so. Could that someone be you? I want to meet someone whom I can't keep from my mind, day or night. Do you feel that way? Do we ask too much? Perhaps so, but I know it is possible for I have had a very enjoyable relationship in the past. This has unfortunately come to a conclusion and I sorely miss having that 'secret someone' to think about, care about and look forward to hearing from and meeting surrepticiously. I have a lot to give yet no-one in my life to give it to.

I seek someone capable of kindness who's interest extends beyond their own ego. My preference is for someone 5ft-10 or above whom I can look up to; who has proved that they are capable of taking initiative in life but who doesn't smoke or sport facial hair; who lives relatively locally and, it goes without saying, who is capable of ultimate discretion and who can actually make time available to meet rather than occasionally squeezing me into their busy schedule. Weekday daytime suits me best but occasional evenings are possible. Who knows, even the occasional weekend?

If it is you I am describing then please do message me, preferably with a photo password as I do not wish to waste your time or mine if you have three eyes, or look like my Dad (it has happened!) And ditch the blurry image and the dark glasses ... I want to see the real you! And please only contact me if you are truly interested in an exclusive, ongoing and mutually supportive relationship. Otherwise, i'm afraid, you will be wasting your time.

I can talk about most things and am always open to new ideas. My passions I suppose are the natural environment, travel and human psychology. Should I be fortunate enough to find someone of compatible attitude and aspiration whom I am also attracted to then of course I would like to explore further into a more physical interaction, but the two come strictly in that order - mind then body. I would prefer that you are, what do they say, "easy on the eye" if I might have to sit on the other side of the table from you during our long and interesting discussions about how it is we find ourselves in this position when those around us are all under the illusion that we have perfectly satisfactory home lives and would never dream of doing something like this .......

Other Interests:

Nature, Arts / Crafts, Gardening, Hiking / Camping, Sailing / Boating

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