Cret1

About Me:

Hello - thank you for taking a look at my profile.

I'm a mature married man seeking a sensual, intimate, expressive relationship, underpinned by a genuine friendship and care for each other.

My life is pretty conventional; e.g. white collar managerial career, wife, family, etc. But my wife has sadly lost all interest in any aspect of intimacy - a situation which has prevailed for 20+ years and is eating me up. As a highly sensual, sensitive and sexual man, I find it impossible to think that I'm going to spend the next 30 years essentially celibate.

So I'm looking to meet an articulate, witty, charming, sexy lady for a completely discreet intimate friendship. Could that be you?

I'm 5'8" tall, and getting no taller at this point. I really don't care if you're taller than me; it's a non-issue for me. I have "salt n' peppa" look hair (modern style), clean shaven, clear complexion, blue eyes.

I take a great pride in my appearance. In my business life I wear nice suits, shirts and ties. My relaxed look tends to be some nice jeans and a shirt. I'm immaculately clean and hygienic (non smoker).

I regard myself as a sapiosexual and demisexual. And if neither of those words mean anything to you, you're probably not right for me. I'm uncommonly open minded and at ease with all intimate matters.

I have absolutely no interest in soap opera's, nor 'Strictly Go Baking On Ice In The Jungle', nor the fortunes of Gemma Collins nor Joey Essex. Conversations on such matters would reduce me to a catatonic state.

I'm known for a 'wicked' (as I believe the parlance would label it) sense of humour; including being highly self-effacing. I like to think that I have a good heart, good values and good manners.

I'll out myself as having a bit of a 'dad bod' but I'm no chubster nor slob. I go to the gym 3 - 4 times a week and enjoy it.

I'm told that I'm a reasonably good looking guy. I think of myself as Mr Slightly Above Average, but I'm no George Clooney.

I can make myself available during the day and also evening / overnight, as opportunity permits. All, of course, with a little planning. Weekends are a little more tricky but not impossible with a bit of forward planning.

Please feel free to ask me anything you'd care to. And equally, please share anything about yourself.

Ideal Partner:

I don't particularly have a "type" of a lady, as it were. I find people attractive for the whole package of who they are - interpersonally, intellectually and physically.

Ideally, I seek someone who is a business professional (maybe legal / finance / accounting / banking / etc.) - probably based in Harrogate or York or maybe Leeds - with a vibrant, bubbly personality and intelligence. I'd expect that the lady I meet will probably be in her 50's or 40's. I'd be surprised if someone in her 30's or 20's would be quite on the same wavelength as I, BUT ....... I'm always prepared to be surprised. If you are in your 20's or 30's all I would ask is that you genuinely are a lady who is attracted to the more mature man.

I'm not keen on people who take themselves terribly seriously or have no sense of humour or spend most of their 'conversations' presenting a pious monologue on their views. My ideal lady would be a conversationalist with a wide and varied sense of humour. I value courtesy, good manners, kindness, understanding and emotional depth.

I have an open mind on your own relationship status; that is entirely your business. You could be married, in a long term relationship, single or anything in between. As long as you do actually want a discreet relationship and a shared erotic journey, that's all that matters.

I'm very, very relaxed about sexuality; bisexual and/or bi-curious are most welcome. Indeed, I'd say that someone with a hint of bi in them is generally someone who is more sensual.

On the physical front all I would ask is that you are hygienic (inc. NON-smoker) and take a pride in your appearance.

And, of course, mutual absolute discretion is sought and assured.

If you're any of the following, it really is highly unlikely that we'd connect:
* Smoker - although someone who is genuinely an occasional or recreational smoker is fine.
* Tediously ‘Vanilla’ in your attitude to intimacy.
* Have an irresponsible / cavalier attitude to SAFE Sex.
* Loony leftie / self-entitled / woe-is-me / Corbynite
* Unemployed / skint.
* Finds an excuse to choose to be “offended” by anything and everything.
* Thick as a submarine door.
* Have a temper, is rude and/or are prone to bullying and unpleasantness

Other Interests:

Museums / Galleries, Music - Blues/Jazz, Music - World, Literature / History, Boxing / Wrestling, Cricket, Football / Soccer / Rugby, Gym / Aerobics, Shopping, Movies / Cinema, Food and Wine

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