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1117169 - 07 Jul, 2020 - 12:33PM

@Honey-pot80

I may be wrong, but I assume he was towards the younger end of your specified age range.

If so his behaviour would be typical and normal if not he is immature.

What did you seriously expect from a young man?

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Honey-pot80 - 07 Jul, 2020 - 10:40AM

I’ve been here for a few weeks now and in the beginning had lots of messages, shiny new toy syndrome lol. Had to be clear on my age range. I have my own preferences on age and that’s means I’m clear on what I like not fussy as some previous comments stated. I met someone after a week and was floored at how great he sounded, looked and came across. We got on so well and planned to meet soon and just kept chatting....then he disappeared! No warning and previously said he wouldn’t ignore moe would be open! I’m now very guarded as to try again..

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892756 - 05 Jul, 2020 - 03:53PM

Be yourself, enjoy and get the most out of it!

1346297 - 04 Jul, 2020 - 11:46PM

Just be yourself xx

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HowieJB66 - 04 Jul, 2020 - 11:41PM

Hello everyone,
Im also new here, and having just read sportster 1200L post feel a little afraid having tentatively signed up, but yea .. I need to be brave and positive.

Life has been very tough for all of is these last 3 month and suddenly find myself feeling really ernest when what I want to is meet up and have some fun with a like minded lady

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Steve McQueen loves tickling - 04 Jul, 2020 - 11:15PM

I'm new here too and would love advice on how to approach women, what works :) thanks xx

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1117169 - 03 Jul, 2020 - 11:59PM

Be aware that the first time you have an affair, if it becomes more than a one off sexual encounter to the extent that you feel like boyfriend and girlfriend, it can feel overwhelming and heady. The sheer joy of it can be addictive. It can make you feel rejuvenated and that life is worth living again, but on the other hand it can also make you devalue what you have, disrespect your partner and risk everything to feed that addiction. You might fall in love no matter how hard you try to avoid it.

First affairs are especially dangerous. When they end, as they usually do, they can make you very down and negative about everyday mundane family life. The more mature of us have been through that mill and are aware of the potential downsides so are more capable of taking a balanced view and handling it better. We are aware that everything in life has a cost and that there is no such thing as risk free excitement.

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Lightmyfire936 - 03 Jul, 2020 - 11:01PM

You're here for a reason and only you know exactly what that is

So remind yourself what it is you really want from IE and then

be brave
be careful
be positive
do the things you really want to do even if the angel on your shoulder says NO!!!
dont confess - thats only going to ruin your home life

One life live it

If you have half the fun I've had then you'll have a huge smile on your face

Good luck

xx

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Justawhile - 03 Jul, 2020 - 05:19PM

Yup. Don’t go sitting under the apple tree with anyone else but me.
Seriously though. Be careful, discerning and simply have your Bull Shit radar on

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Funseeker997 - 03 Jul, 2020 - 04:56PM

@tea_coffee_me

Just pulling your leg after reading your comments about the “business meeting” request :)