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1386174 - 15 Jun, 2020 - 10:04AM

Ladies who know what they want are not fussy or choosy.... they are selective, assured and know what they are looking for....
Not everybody is desperate to find somebody/anybody just for sex.... if the other criteria match surely the physical aspects will follow in due course... at least that has always been my experience.... 😂
Do what works for you....

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1352608 - 15 Jun, 2020 - 10:01AM

Charlie 10027
I do agree to a certain extent but if you are chatting for a while and he reveals him or herself and you actually dont like what you are seeing then you are left in a dilemma
You have to let then down sometimes not so gently if that person gets offended.
I think possibly three to four messages and even if there is an attract9 there is nothing to say that will work.
Longer one is on here the easier it gets
You should be polite then move on.
Men have done it to be quite a lot recently but I dont let it bother me!
The only think I ask if you live more than a hour away and you cant meet me halfway then I always answer and say thanks but no thanks
Be nice to have a nice pic of men smartly dressed in a suit and tie lycra bike stuff doesn't do it for me!
Have I offended anyone,? 😜🙉🙉

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Charlie10027 - 15 Jun, 2020 - 09:37AM

Some thoughts for you:

Trust your instinct

If someone is asking for a photo within a very short period of time, not a good indicator of potential chemistry as more interested in physical side? This may be okay for you, but if you want something more, I think it is a good signal.

You are here because you presumably want an affair. I think you will have more success if you are flexible in your outlook rather thinking perfection may exist on this site.

2/3 word messages are not great if you want to chat and discover someone. Nothing worse than a carefully thought through message which is answered with a couple of words. It has to work both ways.

Good luck

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1320953 - 15 Jun, 2020 - 09:33AM

To the comments that ladies are too fussy And choosy ....I don’t think that’s true. This has the Potential to be life changing. ( if someone finds out etc) being choice or fussy is being sensible and cautious . Also I’m not going to fall into bed or spend precious time with a man that doesn’t have a sense of humour I appreciate, Interest in common or has a good personality or that I physically find sexy and that Also who doesn’t live 200 miles away and wants a virtual affair .
I’m sure you didn’t just marry or start a long term relationship with any old woman. ! It’s called being a grown up and accepting that not all women think you are gods gift

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1376462 - 09 May, 2020 - 05:18PM

Not sure if guys come across
We start chatting n when it comes password x change it goes quiet !!!
Appreciate no one is perfect
I do agree to one of the previous comment- ladies can be too fussy!!!

MordenRomeo - 09 May, 2020 - 12:14PM

Woman in IE are more choosy, too much rigid and not willing to try something new.
Have very strong type and somewhat rude...
I wish they could be a little less rigid

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Cayden72 - 07 May, 2020 - 03:16PM

I'm new, so a bit apprehensive giving my photo, any tips on how you can trust someone?

1358651 - 26 Apr, 2020 - 07:54PM

Hi! I could imagine the excitement and nervousness at the same time, but just be yourself and be sure of what you really want!
That will lead the way, as many people are here just for sex, whereas some people are for emotional & physical both as there is lackness of both in their home.
It takes time to find the right one, so take your time and not rush. At the moment it’s even more difficult coz of lockdown but that’s gives you chance to find the chemistry before you plan to see anyone!
I met someone a month ago and he has been head over heels all the time but due to lockdown, he is all the time bothered and frustrated in his home that he doesn’t even message me more than 1 or 2 times. So this lockdown does have negative effect too, especially the new relation just started before lockdown and wasn’t given fair chance!!

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695400 - 26 Apr, 2020 - 07:49PM

Hi everyone.. trying to get a pic from guys on here is like getting blood out of a stone...

restallion - 26 Apr, 2020 - 07:46PM

First, you'll have a lot more fun, at very little extra risk, if you realise that people here are not out to get'cha. I mean, in the uncovering-your-secrets way. ;)

Second, take a chance on someone nice, who might not appear to be your idea of your "type". Chemistry is a funny thing. Give it time. I did, and ended up in the most wonderful relationship imaginable. Except for its being surreptitious, of course.

My third contribution... I'd say, if you don't really want an affair, try to figure that out early on. If you just want the stimulation of the idea, say so! Many are those who would be happy to help you out. And everyone will have a nicer time of it.

xx

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