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Mid-Year Resolutions

Most of what I had planned this next few months has pretty much gone out of the window, and I’ve needed to come up with novel things to keep me sane and entertained.

I’ve wanted to have an affair for a long time, and I’ve just plucked up the courage to search for somebody. This time at home has only amplified my want to do something new, something for me only, and that’s how I find myself here. Can anybody relate? I’m calling it my mid year resolution.

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ExoticOrchid - 01 May, 2020 - 03:39PM

sweetsinner / Abzeer / Hender74

Not just the women … men has lists just as long, believe me!!!

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tea_coffee_me_ - 01 May, 2020 - 03:37PM

" flitryfun - There are loads of guys on here who are hey how are you can i have your password oh sorry your not my type when if the just took the time to actually have a conversation they might find that there is a connection which is half the attraction"

I have found laughing and chatting with many men great, then they ask for the photo, and no not my type. May be when they do meet it is chemistry wham bam, and bye bye.
None of my relationships have been like that, great communication needed, especially when things do not go the way of a scripted romantic film!

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tea_coffee_me_ - 01 May, 2020 - 03:34PM

Well during house arrest we have just been as busy! (So are a few other families)
Its wonderful not spending 6 hours an evening taxing children to and from all the activities, however as my children have said, how come we are JUST as busy.

Managed to take a few days off over Easter and actually forced the time for a coffee and read a book!! In the sun!!! Just joy! Wine and good adult company would have been better but ...

Yes wish I had a person around the house with time to do all the jobs that keep being put off but ....

Any mid year resolutions would be find other like minded people and live our days as NORMAL, NOT the 'new NORMAL', NORMAL.
(Yes I know that will be disliked by many ... however when you only have a short time left anyway ...)

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flitryfun - 01 May, 2020 - 03:33PM

Sweet sinner i agree but i dont think its just the women on here that are like that.
There are loads of guys on here who are hey how are you can i have your password oh sorry your not my type when if the just took the time to actually have a conversation they might find that there is a connection which is half the attraction

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1374374 - 01 May, 2020 - 03:33PM

@sweetsinner I agree with you. It is more like a tick exercise.


1373861 - 01 May, 2020 - 03:33PM

@sweetsinner ain’t that the truth, you feel pretty bad at home, bad for wanting to improve life and bad cause you can’t tick any boxes to even get a message reply......lol 🤪


Artstudent - 01 May, 2020 - 03:30PM

The coronavirus tracking apps sound somewhat scary. Do I necessarily want the world to know where I was between 3PM and 4PM on Wednesday afternoon?


1262378 - 01 May, 2020 - 03:29PM

Hi all, previously working nights I had my own space to feel lonely in. Now with everyone home, I look forward to that peace I get from being able to work. It also gives me the opportunity to search for whoever she may be. The lady that'll relight the fires and give me the excitement and company I crave. I empathize with people who feel trapped. Good luck to all


1091782 - 01 May, 2020 - 03:28PM

If you're over 50 you'll find it difficult... I certainly do, and not being a perfect 10 doesn't help either 🤦

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1367873 - 01 May, 2020 - 03:27PM

Affairs can be good if it's not just about sexual desires.
From what I noticed that majority of female members have shopping list for men in order to reply back to them
He has to be handsome "obviously", funny, athletic, outgoing, kind, caring, etc etc a long list plus he has to be local cuz they won't travel for an affair.

I am sorry but who will have all these criterias and look for an affair online!!
We have to lower our expectations a bit and be a bit risky cuz that's where all the fun exists.

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