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Golden Brown446 - 01 May, 2020 - 03:27PM

Stopthebus_ ln part l would agree that there something missing at home if all was good then people wouldn't be here, some people just love the excitement and stimulus plus you can have your cake and eat it without interfering in anyone elses home affairs.

Ava1Seven - 01 May, 2020 - 03:25PM

stopthebus, I agree with u, but also extra things like novelty, and experience. You can't keep things spicy and fresh by trying many new thing at home with the same person, it becomes monotonous, robotic, unexciting.

stopthebus! - 01 May, 2020 - 03:21PM

i think many of us start an affair because of that very loneliness, lockdown has simply amplified it.

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1373861 - 01 May, 2020 - 03:21PM

It’s good to hear people agree with my thoughts, for so long I have felt bad for wanting to feel good

Golden Brown446 - 01 May, 2020 - 03:20PM

LondonOutlier Sounds like a military term, Just be yourself and enjoy this experience whoever will be your other half will appear at some point👍

Golden Brown446 - 01 May, 2020 - 03:17PM

Glyn be yourself and enjoy this experience

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1376887 - 01 May, 2020 - 03:16PM

@hender74 I know exactly what you mean about being lonely even though you aren’t physically alone. It’s an odd concept, but very real.

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Ava1Seven - 01 May, 2020 - 03:16PM

dear anonymous writer.... yes, go for it, an affair is wonderful, lifechanging, bittersweet, but ohhhhh so tasty. Once you have one though, be aware, you'll always want to have one, it brings too much satisfaction. Keeps you on your toes. it's adrenaline i think we all lack sometimes in marriage

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Golden Brown446 - 01 May, 2020 - 03:13PM

Ha l think most of us can, l think we all yearn for tge years when the thought of that person made us excited, having that connection with another certainly energizes you and calms any angry fires you had burning at home. Is it good for a marriage and does it help someone feel alive again.. Honestly l would say it does.

Ava1Seven - 01 May, 2020 - 03:13PM

@Hender74 I can relateeee! Definitly need some more excitement and passion, and with reasonable nice days on and off, I'm dying for some summer drinks on the river with a man that gives me butterflies. Instead, the day to day codundrum of homelife. It is suprisingly more lonely then I'd anticipated. It's good to be able to chat to people in a similar boat.

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