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I'm single and not ready for a full time relationship. Why do people feel the need to judge me on here? I don't want to ruin anyone's marriage

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tea_coffee_me_ - 17 May, 2020 - 12:59PM

“MatureWorcsBBW - I certainly wouldn't want anyone sharing the fact that we had met with everyone on the forum.”
Ahh I read your message in a different way
a) he asked permission
b) many do not feel my profile etc is ‘too good to be true’ and do not contact me – their words
c) it helps as many people have caused me problems as they have no idea what is involved in ‘real life’.

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HughLong1955 - 17 May, 2020 - 09:32AM

It only matters what 2 people think. The person you are meeting and yourself.

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fiveten3 - 16 May, 2020 - 11:48PM

No one should judge, for sure. It can work for one to be single the other not, and using IE means everyone knows the score from the start. One of my IE relationships was like that, and there was a freedom about it not there where both parties are married - partly meaning more time and space, but more than that, a kind of openness to possibility.

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Pogosticks87 - 16 May, 2020 - 10:48PM

People judge... That's life. At the end of the day you just do what you want to do. Sadly judging people is built into human nature.

As long as your clear with what your looking for then I think its fine. Personally a married man is what I'd look for because they understand the risks, however I wouldn't rule out single or divorced providing they completely understand the circumstances. But it would take a lot for me to agree to that scenario personally.

I don't have any issues with you being here personally. It's your choice.

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asian_spice - 16 May, 2020 - 09:28PM

I agree with MatureWorceBBW on this. Yes we're here for intimate connections and good sex but we all have a life and live in a judgemental world


tea_coffee_me_ - 16 May, 2020 - 07:56PM

" MatureWorcsBBW - I certainly wouldn't want anyone sharing the fact that we had met with everyone on the forum."
Damn, there goes the Birmingham (centre ish of the country, else more north to cover Scotland) gathering then!


tea_coffee_me_ - 16 May, 2020 - 07:55PM

" AAGilfan - T-C-M and Exotic Orchid
That sounds like a good party. Would love to join you. Shall I bring some luxury muffins to indulge in??? 😁😁
Oh yes please … will go well with the ice cream … do join us."
OH YES YES YES please, we are just waiting for story time, however party time before would be great! :-)

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ExoticOrchid - 16 May, 2020 - 07:38PM

Sportster1200L - 16 May, 2020 - 07:30PM
"Have I missed something?"

Yes but not worth your time! :-)


1117169 - 16 May, 2020 - 07:30PM

@ExoticOrchid

Well no I admit I haven't.

Have I missed something?

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ExoticOrchid - 16 May, 2020 - 07:19PM

Sportster1200L - 16 May, 2020 - 07:16PM
" none of the nastiness or personal attacks"

You have obviously not read ALL the comments here then … ;-)

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