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I'm single and not ready for a full time relationship. Why do people feel the need to judge me on here? I don't want to ruin anyone's marriage

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Blacklady - 16 May, 2020 - 06:43PM

If folk find ive viewed their profiles..pay no mind as im just being nosey as to who the commenters are😏

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tea_coffee_me_ - 16 May, 2020 - 06:35PM

“MatureWorcsBBW - Tea_coffee_me
Loving your comments here, your profile and your attitude. It's rather refreshing.”
Blessings of the little cotton socks, thank you, all these compliments what a good start to the weekend, long may it continue :-)
(Cheques are in the post!!)

“Not all single people … want to steal their married lover away from his family commitments.”
Hell no, which I why I make it clear only someone who will NEVER leave. Been there and had it done more than once. Help make a marriage easier, yes
Negatively impact – NO NO and NO

Personally still open to husband no 2, however I do not believe he exists, and NO I am NOT looking here!!!
I am still looking elsewhere for him … :-)

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tea_coffee_me_ - 16 May, 2020 - 06:35PM

“MatureWorcsBBW - Tea_coffee_me
Loving your comments here, your profile and your attitude. It's rather refreshing.”
Blessings of the little cotton socks, thank you, all these compliments what a good start to the weekend, long may it continue :-)
(Cheques are in the post!!)

“Not all single people … want to steal their married lover away from his family commitments.”
Hell no, which I why I make it clear only someone who will NEVER leave. Been there and had it done more than once. Help make a marriage easier, yes
Negatively impact – NO NO and NO

Personally still open to husband no 2, however I do not believe he exists, and NO I am NOT looking here!!!
I am still looking elsewhere for him … :-)

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tea_coffee_me_ - 16 May, 2020 - 06:31PM

"tea_coffee_me_ - "PecanPie - like the story of the old lady and the bag of bones. "

I am sitting comfortably, (with a coffee), you may begin :-)"

My coffee has gone cold, anyone brought wine, champagne, (not brut, dry etc), it is now the evening, luxury popcorn (well it is the weekend), chocolates, ice cream..... ??

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tea_coffee_me_ - 16 May, 2020 - 06:26PM

"BrownEyedGirl01 - Personally I prefer married guys because from my own experience they seem to understand that I too have my own life outside of the ‘bubble’ and rarely ask for more than what I can offer."

I was almost speechless at the number of married men that expect me to be exclusive with them yet they will also have their wives!

They expected me to be sitting there on the end of a phone waiting for me to run to them WHEN IT SUITED THEM!!
To control who I can see where and when! I had that in a marriage which my reward was to raise children on benefits as he went off with his great salary to start his life again!
Hypocrites! No thank you!

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tea_coffee_me_ - 16 May, 2020 - 06:22PM

"sweetsinner - Tea_coffee_me_
Are you the official responder and commentator of IE or it's just you have plenty of spare time to kill ?"

Oh thank you, I will take that as a compliment :-D
No, (feel free to write a reference for me for paid work, that would be GREAT) and no.

Not plenty of spare time far from it, however trained as an old fashioned touch typist, not that level of skill these days though.
As there is little to no chance, of any evenings out, here to help and guide where possible. As one of my purposes here, is to HELP others NOT TO CAUSE PAIN to others especially an unknowing partner, or for those this is not the right place to be, learn that prior to making mistakes that can be avoided….
(Guessing that is the Mum element, the wife had to endure several mistresses element, the dumped for a younger model element and so on …)

Those who have ran a mile or worked their way though my process have seen that! :-D

Enjoy :-)

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1334304 - 16 May, 2020 - 05:40PM

Personally I prefer married guys because from my own experience they seem to understand that I too have my own life outside of the ‘bubble’ and rarely ask for more than what I can offer.

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851951 - 16 May, 2020 - 05:16PM

Oh woo woo you “read” the Daily Mail?

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gemini2310 - 16 May, 2020 - 05:14PM

Why should anyone judge you it's your business not there I would never have a single or divorced IE I don't think I would be able to meet more than once or twice or month but if your happy just go for it


ExoticOrchid - 16 May, 2020 - 05:09PM

MatureWorcsBBW - 16 May, 2020 - 05:01PM
"Not all single people are either desperate to become a couple, unhappy or lonely being single or want to steal their married lover away from his family commitments."

Exactly … thank you!

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