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1639646 - 13 Jan, 2024 - 04:03PM

It's hard enough to fit in one IE plus normal life so no idea how you would go about having multiple IE's.

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WineAndOlives - 13 Jan, 2024 - 03:57PM

Not sure my head, heart or time management skills could handle seeing more than one from IE.

Always see my IE life as parallel to home life ( bit more colour to it maybe), and hasn't affected life at home.

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1447655 - 13 Jan, 2024 - 12:05PM

Ahh yes, the main course and the side salad conundrum.

Problem is that when you really like the steak the salad just won't do. And the salad always really likes you. But if the steak simply will not let itself be eaten, do you then need two salads? Or do you look to replace the steak?! One for vanilla and one for kink?!

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LadyDe - 13 Jan, 2024 - 11:33AM

@paula99

Yet again ditto to all you say 🫶🏼

For me if I had 2 or more on the go it would be all the sexting inbetween meets … my last IE I was lucky to have weekly meets (I am greedy) but equally quality over quantity wins for me now, if my IE can only do once a month, even if it’s frustrated torture it will be worth it if it’s good 😊

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Paula99 - 13 Jan, 2024 - 11:10AM

In the past we have discussed the idea of a ‘side salad and in some instances it could work..
If you only see your IE maybe once month because he travels and maybe can only ‘fit you in’ on one occasion and of course if family issues clash then you get cancellations…each time the ‘waiting ‘ gets longer.
The answer could be to take another lover to cover the interim stage..
You could have one vanilla and one kinky….best of both worlds😂
The down side of it is you are juggling home/family/work life which is extremely difficult…can you keep up with 2 lovers and your partner/husband/wife

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LadyDe - 13 Jan, 2024 - 09:35AM

Yep I was monogamous to my IE. I mean who has time for several? Im chilled with the exclusive thing though, if they want to introduce someone or want to go to a private sex club I’m cool with that, I might want to come too…as a couple your journey is your journey, the only rules are what you both agree on as an IE couple. As far as married life yep we’re still active too …

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1521502 - 17 Jul, 2022 - 07:21AM

I have had one IE on here a couple of years ago and yes I was monogamous , having said that I don't get many offers as i am not the tall broad handsome man all the ladies on here are looking for so not had a lot of temptation .
I am not having a sexual relationship with my spouse , if I was I wouldn't be on here

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mipaulac - 17 Jul, 2022 - 03:40AM

Isn't life busy enough !!! I just don't know how someone can fulfil multiple sexual or other liasons unless it's in the form of an occasional threesome

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1395366 - 17 Jul, 2022 - 01:49AM

I’ve had lots of fun x

1534972 - 17 Jul, 2022 - 01:43AM

Having used this site in the past to successfully meet my perfect AP, I was monogamous to him for over three years. I am looking for the same now as I’m back seeking another IE. In my opinion, when you find the right for you IE, you’d not be seeking others. That would be more aligned to someone simply looking for sex partners.
Additionally, I do not have any sexual relationship with my legal partner, and find myself interested in IE partners who are the same in that regard.

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