Help - my IE is shy!
Finally met my IE after months of online messaging - we have an electric connection and I find him crazy attractive - but I found he is very shy in person…how do I bring him out of his shell?
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Stargirl1 - 06 May, 2022 - 02:16PM
Talk to him
Time
Compliments
Patience
There are some of us who finding it daunting meeting face to face, especially if you've said about intimate wants & wishes in messages.
It doesn't mean that we don't want to have fun!!
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PR_man - 23 Jul, 2020 - 11:45PM
Shy ain't going to buy him the game. This pitch is for the bold.
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1370351 - 19 Jul, 2020 - 04:46PM
Give him a chance! Lots of people are shy when meeting someone new. Even more so if they have never done something like this before.
Shyness doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't like you. It could mean just that - he's shy!
I am sure if he likes you then the real him will start coming out eventually
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1332870 - 19 Jul, 2020 - 03:16PM
Escapewithme - you're right. We have been a bit brutal.
OP please give us an update. Don't be shy 😂😂
1368729 - 19 Jul, 2020 - 02:38PM
Wow some of the comments here are brutal! Some people (MYSELF INCLUDED) are shy until we get a bit more comfortable after physically meeting someone new! Maybe just be kind and patient? If it was great talking to them then it should be great meeting them, even if they are shy. Doesn't mean anything about their intentions!
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gemini2310 - 19 Jul, 2020 - 02:12PM
To be honest i can be quiet if I don't like the person I meet but pple should just say you say he's shy you need to ask him if your not for him he's needs to talk to you and be honest
1327360 - 18 Jul, 2020 - 02:53PM
On a serious note (following my previous comments), should we be playing the patience game? Aren't everyone here for a good time? How much time should be spent on waiting for you to come out of your shell? If you are too shy to handle an IE then maybe you should stick with what you have at home. Easier work for everyone.
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Polycarbonate - 17 Jul, 2020 - 12:20PM
In general, a lot less of the long drawn out prelude. Folk should be meeting a lot sooner. It gets you more socially interactive, and up to date with the changing language of lust.
It's safe enough to meet in a public place for an initial meet. Really all that's needed, a first message or so, a chat on the mobiles, fix a date and DO it.
Get out,work the scene, meet folk don't hold them off. The scene would improve immeasurably.
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1366991 - 16 Jul, 2020 - 09:49PM
Sorry to say if you’ve been chatting and he goes cold when you meet he’s not interested. Leave him too it and move on. If he is interested he’ll seek you out. Don’t be pushy or do things outside of character just be you
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