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1320953 - 16 Jul, 2020 - 03:45PM

You can’t make someone change from shy to outgoing . Surly that’s one of the qualities that draw you him in the first place ?
Plus how did you manage with the 2 metre distancing and dare I say romance of the situation ? I’m interested in the logistics and expectations of the date .

Plum Blonde - 16 Jul, 2020 - 03:37PM

He might be a really nice guy dipping a toe into the water but I'm not sure if I'd want to persuade someone to be passionate .I met someone like this and five years later (we still speak )he's not actually got any further ,with anyone !I think he likes the idea of it but in reality he's got issues .He likes sexting ,so if your guy is like that too,I'd keep it in mind that reality might be a step too far ....!

Teresa di Vicenzo - 16 Jul, 2020 - 03:33PM

This is a very old Lockdown Love dilemma.

Has he ever been brought out of that shell? If he hasn’t I reckon I’d have glued it shut by now.

Please give us an update.

Please give us some new dilemmas

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886724 - 16 Jul, 2020 - 01:26PM

A fella has to keep to top button of his pyjama jacket fastened at all times and kne foot on the floor

Pete likes wine - 16 Jul, 2020 - 11:43AM

Dont worry this happens with both genders - it takes time you will soon see if the commitment is really there otherwise it will drop and fade

1242187 - 16 Jul, 2020 - 10:52AM

Lots of fun and flirty messaging.
Appreciate that he’s shy and that’s the way he is. Not everyone is a noisy extrovert.
Have wild exciting sex with him.
Lots of hugs and affection afterwards.
Simples. 😊

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ClassyLady77 - 16 Jul, 2020 - 10:49AM

I met someone recently, he hadn’t cheated before and soo was quite shy and unsure...

The way I see it, if chemistry is there for both of you then they’ll be No uncertainty. You’ll know when you find the right one and will make time for then as much as you can..

I’ve wished him luck and I’m moving on..

We’re all shy when we first meet someone it’s natural, but when you find the right one that won’t be an issue....

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David657 - 16 Jul, 2020 - 10:44AM

Make him an offer he cant refuse!

1397458 - 16 Jul, 2020 - 10:36AM

I think you need to take the lead and kiss him..💋 if he doesn't respond and spark into life then you move on.

All being well and the blood will start rushing and your body will feel him "come out of his shell"

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762219 - 16 Jul, 2020 - 10:35AM

As a shy man myself, I can sympathise with your IE. Internally, I would want to be that dynamic outgoing guy, but a little voice in my head tells me "No! You'll scare her away". Its probably lack of self-confidence on his part and could be rectified possibly with a little gentle and maybe flirtatious encouragement. Good luck xx

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