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Help - my IE is shy!

Finally met my IE after months of online messaging - we have an electric connection and I find him crazy attractive - but I found he is very shy in person…how do I bring him out of his shell? 

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LisaLikesIt - 16 Jul, 2020 - 09:48PM

Keep being yourself.... he’ll soon find his confidence. The first one or two meets can play havoc with the nerves!

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1332870 - 16 Jul, 2020 - 08:45PM

Hate to break it but it could be that he's just not interested

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1398426 - 16 Jul, 2020 - 08:39PM

Be absolutely filthy, that’s what you’re here for right?

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Liltink - 16 Jul, 2020 - 08:31PM

Being the quiet one . .. well done for meeting! You need a bit of tenacity we come out of our shells with the right one

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1398621 - 16 Jul, 2020 - 08:24PM

Just keep chatting like you did on messenger , some people take a bit more warming up than others.

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1323236 - 16 Jul, 2020 - 06:51PM

Dump him!

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1397808 - 16 Jul, 2020 - 06:10PM

It could just be he needs more time. I mean...one meet is really early days. If he stays that way...it could be he’s just ‘not into you’...

Either way...enjoy and have fun when you can x


1392377 - 16 Jul, 2020 - 05:25PM

How many times have you met?
Perhaps he will come out of his shell after first couple of meets!
If he has been out of the dating game for some years it may be a daunting for him jumping back in again. X


CroydonCentaur - 16 Jul, 2020 - 04:44PM

"Months of online messaging.."??
Wow.

You must have mutually really wanted a pen pal.
Or live in darkest Peru...

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DiamondDomine - 16 Jul, 2020 - 04:01PM

hows the lockdown guys?

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