Alibi
I need an alibi buddy! Any advice?
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tmn2024 - 08 Mar, 2025 - 10:28AM
No no no no. Wrong mindset! You don't need an alibi, you need a whole new life pattern.
You start acting out of pattern, and every time there's an excuse or a story, you won't last five minutes in this game, I can tell you that.
You have to slowly, over time, make new life pathways that will become normalised. So for example, start moaning that you're feeling lethargic and then join a gym. For real. Then actually go to the gym, involve your real partner in your new activity, ask him/her for their support as you try to better yourself. But then later, when their risk radar has died well down, you use the regular gym visits as your alibi. You should still attend the gym regularly, but you've now got something that's yours that you can use as an alibi sometimes.
Take up a new musical instrument and go get tuition on it. Again, you'll have to attend the lessons, but who's to say you don't tell your real partner that you have two or three lessons a week, when in fact you've got only one?
Rise and repe
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Crispy - 08 Mar, 2025 - 09:25AM
Morning folks......
Interesting question.....
I mean there is so much that can go wrong if you talk to anyone, wouldn't you just want to keep this for yourself.....
Use your bestie, but indirectly.... I'm going out with.... or they fancy a chat.... or something that is normal.
Involving others ...... not sure I'd like that but agree with an earlier comment - get a new hobby, swimming or squash (if you are sporty) something that'll take you away from the house for a couple of house and you can do them in the day and evenings if your local venues apply.....
Long walks..... you have a sudden urge to get into nature.....
What is everyones thoughts?
1743108 - 22 Jan, 2025 - 06:16PM
A palibi?
Unwoke! - 16 Jan, 2025 - 02:02PM
Yeah, DON'T!
Anyone else who knows what you're up to is then complicit in your lying (not fair on them) plus is a potential leak.
Harrys60 - 14 Jan, 2025 - 03:04PM
An alibi is a lie and a lie will trip you up in the end.
It's new year
Start a new "hobby" that takes you away from your usual routine
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Gee72 - 13 Jan, 2025 - 08:39PM
If a single girl offer or help you out or give you a firing flavour as an alibi buddy. She should also be spoilt with some pampaming and gifts. Not just being alibi buddy.
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Lec2024 - 13 Jan, 2025 - 06:48PM
I haven’t told a soul. It’s the easiest way to keep things under wraps. I’ve used work before as an excuse which has worked well. If you need someone to lie for you then it’s already looking suspect
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Delicious Chaos - 13 Jan, 2025 - 06:47PM
People just need to have their own friends and not live in their spouses pocket. If that’s the case you will have no chance. So many contact me about only being able to meet during the day, particularly useful for those who are self employed.
I’m sorry but if I’m going to have an affair partner I want one that has some flexibility and not just looking for a quick lunchtime bunk up.
If you need an alibi then I suggest you probably need to rethink your choices
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