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marklondonengland - 13 Jan, 2025 - 11:59AM

You don't need a buddy and you don't need an alibi. Just create the situations where you are going to be away from home or out for the evening anyway. Once you have to create alibis or start behaving artificially then you are busted anyway!

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Clickable Connection - 13 Jan, 2025 - 09:24AM

Agree with has already been said here. I personally don't tell anyone about my encounters. I just feel I don't want them to be in position and lie for me.

Agree with Marlen - you gotta make your alibis more natural and part of the overall habits. Any sudden changes in your habits will definitely spark suspicions.

Eg I've always used work as a cover - I used work late and go out with clients and / or colleagues quite abit - so when I say this , it's not out side of my normal habits and does not spark suspicions.

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Marlen - 25 Jan, 2024 - 02:15AM

If you can't think of an alibi, you'll fail.

If you're predictable, changes in behaviour will always catch you out, especially if your OH is female, or possessive, or suspicious.

If you embark on this route, introduce changes to your habits gradually, so that you 'create' your alibi.

A great one is to go for a drive, 'because you've had a tough day' That won't work, if you don't drive🤣 But you get the idea.

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Paula99 - 24 Jan, 2024 - 04:57PM

You don’t need to find anyone to help you with an alibi ..if you have led separate lives in your marriage..the excuses are already in place ..

For those that have lived in their partners pockets you have to trust someone but who …

The way I look at it is …the only person who knows about my skeletons is ME …safest option

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KittySimone - 24 Jan, 2024 - 01:10AM

Find someone that gives you a valid and innocent reason for seeing them. Then you never have to lie.

1632896 - 02 Jan, 2024 - 09:53PM

Awordsmith

Tell that to Hatt Mancock..!!

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Awordsmith - 02 Jan, 2024 - 08:57PM

Best to squeeze in passionate encounters during business hours! Much reduced likelihood of getting caught with your pants down (literally and metaphorically!) 😜

Douglasclansman - 31 Dec, 2023 - 04:44PM

I went to confession

Nadia747 - 31 Dec, 2023 - 01:36PM

The wife rang me and I texted but asking who it was, and she texted back to say that I rang her before, I said sorry but I don't have this number on my phone so how can I call you, next minute she started calling my phone and I answered, the lady sounded very posh with a very rich accent but she put the phone down on me, I think she realised that my English was broken beyond repair as I was mixing with Afrikaans and my own language.

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Enigma.. - 28 Dec, 2023 - 01:08PM

@Dotty Green

I totally agree with you.

I don’t have access to my mobile during working hours “security”.
My partner tends to just message or leave a voicemail which I’ll reply to when I can.
I can away with I’ve been offered an extra shift or there’s a meeting up in Glasgow.
But I always make sure where/when I’m meeting my Ie that we use places and modes of transport that we won’t run into anyone we know.
And there will be a perfectly good explain as to why I’m on said train or in a certain place.

Just like you say…. Keep it simple and uncomplicated 🙂

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