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1518602 - 29 Apr, 2022 - 02:30PM

Hi there I’m looking forward to connecting with like minded people to rejuvenate my self esteem hopefully have a laugh an much needed enjoyment

1117169 - 27 Apr, 2022 - 09:17AM

@Paula

As I maintain, the two most important criteria ( Besides mutual attraction and compatibility of personalities and interests) are realistic logistics and sufficient mutual free time.

Without these, and its not easy at all to find them, its a probable non - starter, or if it does manage to get off the ground initially, its not sustainable.

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Paula99 - 27 Apr, 2022 - 08:48AM

Luscious...

Its important that you do create a pastime that you can use to validate your time with your IE..it must be believable and if you invite him to join you make sure he has a full diary and the likelihood is he will refuse as he has too much to do...you need to be one step ahead all of the time...its not easy but its doable..
In my case my partner and I were like ships that pass in the night when the kids were younger so I always had a reason to be away and vice versa...in retrospect I created the environment that is needed even before I had an affair..

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MordenRomeo - 26 Apr, 2022 - 11:30PM

Glad you are having a good time. But please please remember not to keep your guards down during the good time. Don't think your affair cannot surface... Even if you are 100% careful your partner might not be.
Having a partner who have equal wavelength like you is a jackpot.

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Luscious69 - 26 Apr, 2022 - 08:45PM

@Desparated3n; not sure about regular invitingly him to join me in my new hobby; what if my bluff is called?

Bandboy - 26 Apr, 2022 - 01:28PM

I have always enjoyed my "wanderings". I always look forward to meetings, social or otherwise, it is the flirting and the secrecy. It not an excuse to whine and whinge about ones partner, it is the excitement of being with a new (or in some instances an old) friends. I still occasionally talk with my "friends" even though they are many miles away and many years past as we share nothing but warm and treasured memories.

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Desperated3n - 26 Apr, 2022 - 12:21PM

I think that having an affair definitely raises the spirits, but before embarking on the new path, I suggest that you create a new hobby or pastime that you know your OH is not going to be interested in. But make sure that you regularly invite them to join you. That way you remove suspicion from your movements.
I still prefer to meet new people face to face, but I am sure that IE allows us to ask questions or tell someone your fantasies / kinky ideas easier than asking them in the real world.

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SapioSexy - 21 Apr, 2022 - 11:30AM

I am hoping this kind of thing is what I can find in time! I have enjoyed it previously and really missed it last few years. Find myself again outside being unwanted at home!

Nic70 - 20 Apr, 2022 - 09:23PM

Just wish to echo much of what has been said, yep that smile, that extra warmth making you feel a decade or two younger, fresh and not stale…yes OH and sharp eyed older kids don’t miss a trick.

1516594 - 18 Apr, 2022 - 07:45PM

Good luck @U749! One of the best things for me was that feeling of knowing someone is thinking about you and looking forward to seeing you. It really does put a spring in your step!