Let one's hair down
Full disclosure: I am genuinely a much happier person to be around since having an affair. I've laughed harder, and been more playful then I have in the last decade. Thanks IE for helping me let my hair down.
Can anyone relate?
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Nic70 - 18 Apr, 2022 - 07:21PM
I recognise this. Being on here on and off I have had the good fortune to chat and meet one or two women from different spheres to mine. It has been so enriching and yes it does make life more fulfilling.
1516105 - 18 Apr, 2022 - 05:12PM
I haven't even met the guy I've arranged to see yet, and already I feel happier!! Just to think someone's attracted to me is such a buzz after years with a husband who couldn't care less.
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ExoticOrchid - 17 Apr, 2022 - 01:02PM
P99 - 10:25AM
Indeed.
Personally, I found it very hurtful. ๐ช
spod71 - 17 Apr, 2022 - 10:33AM
@Paula99 must admit within the circle of friends I have known try it, it hasn't worked out. Especially the 'young' relationship like you mentioned.
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spod71 - 17 Apr, 2022 - 10:29AM
@Evertheoptimistic you sum it up perfectly. Those moments out of the situation are pure heaven. It actually draws me closer to that special person.
Paula99 - 17 Apr, 2022 - 10:25AM
Open relationships do work with some couples ....there has to be total trust..honesty..boundaries...not sure it works in 'young' relationships....it could be a can of worms in some respect....if it does take off ...good luck.๐ฃ๐ฐ
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All Day Breakfast - 16 Apr, 2022 - 08:46AM
@missingfun so it doesnโt sound like youโre missing fun ๐ค
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1515202 - 12 Apr, 2022 - 07:05PM
@missingfun
I am doing exactly the same. And why not? He has his fun outside, I have my fun outside ๐
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Evertheoptimistic - 12 Apr, 2022 - 06:29PM
It does take the pressure off.
When you accept your home life for what it is, or has become, and leaving isn't an option, then finding someone who understands and is willing to work with you is fabulous.
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