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1718003 - 13 Nov, 2024 - 03:18PM

*messages

*but

My typos are getting worse.

1718003 - 13 Nov, 2024 - 03:00PM

Match her energy, it's as simple as that. Of course having an idea of her daily routine helps to identify any deviation from patterns.

If she massages a lot and you're OK with that, follow suit, if it is less bit predictable times match that. And of course always ask what she prefers. If it's too much or too little for you then move on.

It's always an unexplained change of rhythm that signals an invitation to relinquish the relationship.

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1712547 - 12 Nov, 2024 - 11:26PM

Didn’t you talk about that when you met?

1671367 - 12 Nov, 2024 - 10:14PM

I’ve had one who enjoyed regular messaging, especially when she’s feeling horney so we sext to the end.. Others said no messages during daytime. All depends on their preference

ExoticOrchid - 12 Nov, 2024 - 04:40PM

ABS - 11:46AM

You've got to think outside the box and use a go-between! 😉

You're welcome!

1719976 - 12 Nov, 2024 - 02:44PM

ClassyLady77, I completely agree. Given there would be chemistry and a connection after the first meet, messaging should by the point be very natural and increase excitement.

The alternative is no contact where one party will become paranoid or uninterested, resulting in no more meets.

Life is simple.

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ClassyLady77 - 12 Nov, 2024 - 02:31PM

Always good to catch up between meets to arrange a date and make plans. That’s the fun part…

I met someone recently and major red flag was he wouldn’t make firm plans and said he couldn’t due to his job.. I won’t be falling for that again.. Another friend just wants to check in then just disappears for months so he’s not getting seconds… 😂

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Richard5484 - 12 Nov, 2024 - 01:51PM

It’s a fine balance ensuring you don’t bring to over bearing to your new partner but enough to show both your interest and your understanding of their situation.

1671367 - 12 Nov, 2024 - 01:37PM

It varies. Some individuals I've encountered prefer to receive messages only at certain times, while others are fine with frequent communication. One person was surprised when I demonstrated how to hide WhatsApp conversations from anyone using their phone. The key is to communicate openly and reach an agreement on these preferences. It's perfectly fine to ask!

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ABronteSister - 12 Nov, 2024 - 11:46AM

I’m new to the site but even when I was on dating apps I would try to establish what my usual amounts of conversation would be and I also mention that I’m not needy! As a bisexual woman this is an issue with both men and women. On that note, does anyone know how I can reach out to women as I am unable to message them!? TIA x