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I have just started seeing a new IE - how often should I message her inbetween meets? Any advice would be appreciated

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1494077 - 16 Nov, 2024 - 01:17PM

I think both parties soon figure out each other’s schedules and availability so chat routine should naturally fall into place. If there is a real connection, comms between meets should not be a chore but something you look forward to.

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laugar164 - 16 Nov, 2024 - 12:35PM

Mellors4
I'd say ask the lady are agree how much and when , we all have an other life's that take up most of our time and with Most lady's running a household and a job their time to message may be limited , bombarding her with messages all the time will possibly put her off


Mellors4 - 15 Nov, 2024 - 09:42PM

All the time

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Delicious Chaos - 13 Nov, 2024 - 08:48PM

ABronteSister

As EO said think outside the box, you like a profile you see on here ;-) then go between is what you need

It does work


1718003 - 13 Nov, 2024 - 03:18PM

*messages

*but

My typos are getting worse.


1718003 - 13 Nov, 2024 - 03:00PM

Match her energy, it's as simple as that. Of course having an idea of her daily routine helps to identify any deviation from patterns.

If she massages a lot and you're OK with that, follow suit, if it is less bit predictable times match that. And of course always ask what she prefers. If it's too much or too little for you then move on.

It's always an unexplained change of rhythm that signals an invitation to relinquish the relationship.

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1712547 - 12 Nov, 2024 - 11:26PM

Didn’t you talk about that when you met?


1671367 - 12 Nov, 2024 - 10:14PM

I’ve had one who enjoyed regular messaging, especially when she’s feeling horney so we sext to the end.. Others said no messages during daytime. All depends on their preference


ExoticOrchid - 12 Nov, 2024 - 04:40PM

ABS - 11:46AM

You've got to think outside the box and use a go-between! 😉

You're welcome!


1719976 - 12 Nov, 2024 - 02:44PM

ClassyLady77, I completely agree. Given there would be chemistry and a connection after the first meet, messaging should by the point be very natural and increase excitement.

The alternative is no contact where one party will become paranoid or uninterested, resulting in no more meets.

Life is simple.

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