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ClassyLady77 - 18 Dec, 2020 - 08:37PM

IF your having doubts then they’re not right for you... I remember the first bloke I cheated with. As soon as I met him we had a instant chemistry and the doubts disappeared..

Thats what I’m looking for again.. Time will tell..

I find you can’t tell chemistry online that come from meeting someone for coffee/drinks.. Hence why I never do anything first meet... 🤷🏼‍♀️

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1426072 - 18 Dec, 2020 - 08:35PM

It is very easy. Think about why are you here, in the first place. If things are really miserable at home, why not trying to be happy? The only thing we need to remember, is not to build our happiness on someone else's unhappiness. Make sure you are cautious. Nobody will complain at home about your glowing and good mood 😉

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EmnEm123 - 18 Dec, 2020 - 08:03PM

You should have had a long hard think about this before joining this site.

Bore off.

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1409145 - 18 Dec, 2020 - 12:22PM

Speaking from previous experience. If you find the right person on IE just go for it. An affair can be an amazing g experience.

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thirdkind - 23 Nov, 2020 - 04:41PM

Yeah go for it, refresh those parts that spouses can’t (or won’t) reach x

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1422763 - 23 Nov, 2020 - 12:28PM

Go for it have some fun life’s far too short

CeriseN - 22 Nov, 2020 - 11:17PM

Don't go for anything but that you absolutely can't resist.
It's a big risk, so make sure you can feel that its worth it.
Probably means the chemistry is undeniable.

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1284167 - 22 Nov, 2020 - 07:38PM

i guess we've all started off at a similar point. You could look at it like you've cutting off your current partner in favour of someone new. For me, that brings guilt and worry, and isn't necessarily the case. More often than not the person you've just me feels like a very close friend, someone you can talk openly with and be yourself with. Anything physical is really just an extension of that friendship (almost like sharing a hobby, albeit a naked one). We all have different relationships with different people and this new would-be-affair is no different. Issues only arise when you start questioning your current relationship at home.

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Connorsullivan - 19 Nov, 2020 - 01:18PM

Does your heart race when you talk to them or goose bumps. Maybe you feel more alive talking them than you have in some time. If so I would say meet.

Dazza98 - 17 Nov, 2020 - 08:36PM

Just go for it don't hesitate you could ruin everything