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onlylunch - 06 Jan, 2021 - 04:59PM

i think the best way to go about it is not to expect too much,i had an affair a few years ago with a lady who had just separated , we got on really well and had some good times but in the end it wasnt fair on her as she wanted more and more of my time and i just couldnt do it, if both of you are in a relationship and know the limitations id go for it , life is short x

Caroline Red - 06 Jan, 2021 - 04:15PM

i thought it was umming and ahhing. either way just get on with it. unles of course you want to beat yourself up first in which case catholic churches are still open i hear

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1421217 - 06 Jan, 2021 - 01:40PM

All I want to know is the original poster still offing and umming, considering this has been on since September and we’ve had bonfire night Xmas and another lockdown inbetween , yawn 🥱

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1382700 - 06 Jan, 2021 - 12:26PM

@Teresa

Someone talking sense. Cheating starts with chatting. Other half will be hurt regardless.

1117169 - 06 Jan, 2021 - 10:10AM

@ Canterbury Man

As many others have said and I have found, most ladies are on here to browse / windowshop and maybe chat and flirt online and have no real intention of or ability to meet anybody even in " Normal "circumstances. When they become bored or are unable or unwilling to keep the conversation going or have to face the prospect of actually meeting you they ghost you and move on to someone else.

If you have been chatting for a while and do not get a positive reaction to the suggestion of planning a meeting ( Difficult at the moment of course) then move on and dont look back. There are some very genuine ladies on here who do want to meet and have the ability to do so, but they are rare and you have to work hard to find them but you will soon suss them out sooner or later.

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1393321 - 06 Jan, 2021 - 10:09AM

@Canterbury man

What keeps a lady interested in your conversation? Personal interest. Women often get the impression men are just after sex, stand out from that crowd :-)

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Paul 07914 - 04 Jan, 2021 - 06:11PM

Only take me that move if you are 100% sure it is what you want and need in your life,after all it’s you that has to live with it and lie if asked by your partner,good luck

1372703 - 04 Jan, 2021 - 03:52PM

After some time deliberating last year, I have joined to find where life will take me next. I guess Christmas got in the way so hoping 2021 will be a better year all around. What I have not learnt yet is what keeps a lady interested in carrying on a conversation.. :-)

1366164 - 03 Jan, 2021 - 10:49PM

Let me show you the way? X

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1386735 - 01 Jan, 2021 - 09:34AM

FineWineTime

No, no, no... DO NOT give out your telephone number until you have met and are happy to move forward. If you’ve got a burner phone then yes feel free to give out your number...but I hope the majority of sensible women in here do not give out their number that easily.

Face to face is critical and doable, even in lockdown, just need to think outside the box a little, which a fair few are unable to do on here!

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