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1372703 - 23 Dec, 2020 - 11:44AM

probably most of us haven't either but if you know and have that feeling, then I think its right.

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ExoticOrchid - 23 Dec, 2020 - 10:47AM

Miles Hall - 23 Dec, 2020 - 10:03AM

Unfortunately that scenario is quite common here ... both sexes can, and do, behave badly.
They are obviously not worth your time.

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1372663 - 23 Dec, 2020 - 10:03AM

Hi
Maybe someone can help
I'm looking for someone to have an afair with
I class myself as friendly and not bad looking.
But
I have chatted with a few ladies and we either chat on Kik or whattsapp.
I clicked with one woman and was looking forward to chatting with her again.
Then nothing no goodbye just no contact.
It's now happened a couple of times.
I wasn't blocked just simply no answer.
It would be really kind of the lady to say I'm not interested or chat next week, but dont leave me hanging on.
I didn't want to chat to someone else incase they came back but they never did.
The last thing they said to me was chat tomorrow.
Are there any ladies or guys this happens to as I am now double thinking what I said that may have pushed them away any advice would be great.

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1354963 - 23 Dec, 2020 - 01:14AM

If your really offing and umming then you really don’t like them as much as you think and/or your not ready for an affair/not sure what you want. Not very fair on the other person

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1418654 - 22 Dec, 2020 - 11:46PM

How about staying on this level for now? And if you are shaking your head as you read my suggestion, then you are probably ready to take the plunge. On the other hand, if my suggestion feels safe, then that’s your answer...

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1408848 - 21 Dec, 2020 - 07:15PM

your instincts will tell you. you just know when you know

1426763 - 21 Dec, 2020 - 06:50PM

I think that having got onto the site you probably want to give it a go. Meet a few times, chat, make sure both of you know each others rules.
As once happened to me, someone wanted to go too far even though I had been as clear and honest as possibly. I think that caused some pain.

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ExoticOrchid - 19 Dec, 2020 - 11:55AM

Lots of men on IE certainly are very into "iffing and umming" ... no cajones!

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Teresa di Vicenzo - 18 Dec, 2020 - 10:09PM

You’re ‘iffing and umming’ about going further (by that I assume you mean you want to have sex) with the secret relationship you’ve already started with someone you’ve met online on a cheating site. If your partner was to discover right now what you’ve done up to now, I’m not sure the technicality of you not having had sex will matter too much; they’ll still feel betrayed and cheated on. If your partner doesn’t know what you’re up to, then in my opinion, you’re basically already cheating.
If however you’re not sure you do actually want to take that step into a sexual relationship with your IE, I suggest you bale out now. To keep ‘iffing and umming’ is hardly fair on your IE.
Full on sexual cheating isn’t for everyone. If it feels wrong, don’t do it.

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Kris4177 - 18 Dec, 2020 - 08:47PM

im feeling the urge to see someone new but my life at home is amazing with my partner. something is missing. hot passion n wild sex is definitely missing also the butterflies are.