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1117169 - 08 Jan, 2021 - 07:57PM

@Rose Bud

What you prefer to do is very much like what I do and sounds fine to me.

I am suspicious about ladies who want you to call them on their " Mobiles" almost immediately. I had my fingers burned (£££££££ ) once and will never do it again. I would always Google the number first.

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1393321 - 08 Jan, 2021 - 07:47PM

@sportster

But.....if a man messages me once or twice and wants quickly to move to kik I get suspicious...why doesn't he want to get to know me a bit on here?

I think a week on here, a week on kik and then a phone chat and then a meet. If he's too quick too move to kik I back off. I want a little time to assess the connection. I'm not going to move to kik if I don't think the connection is there. And certainly not meet him.

And all the time I'm a genuine lady...

1372663 - 07 Jan, 2021 - 10:05PM

Thanks everyone for your comments
I was beginning to think it was just me.
Really appreciate the feedback

1117169 - 07 Jan, 2021 - 03:12PM

@Wanderer323

Genuine ladies who intend to meet are usually very happy to stop chatting on here, at least for the time being, and talk on Kik ( Or whatever) instead as its discreet and very convenient.

Those that are reluctant to do so usually want to stay on here so they can keep chatting to lots of guys without their cover being blown.

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1430017 - 07 Jan, 2021 - 03:05PM

I’m happily married but have reached the point that I need some excitement and sex with a new partner for real spark

hazle-eyes - 07 Jan, 2021 - 01:39PM

The way I saw it was I felt unhappy in a non physical relationship so I took the plunge a few years ago. I had tried everything to rekindle the fire in my marriage but after years of no physical contact I decided unless I made different decisions life would remain the same. I should add I have been with my wife since I was 15 so this was a big move for me.

I didn’t feel guilty because I had tried everything and wow I loved ever second, it wasn’t just the physical side it was feeling wanted again and listening abs learning from each other. Alas like most good things we couldn’t keep it going because of both our work commitments. She is still a great friend and I have never regretted it.

1427744 - 07 Jan, 2021 - 12:32PM

Interesting comments about vanishing ladies (I am sure men do it too).

Deeply frustrating

It happened to me a couple of years ago when I was here. Lots of chat, shared pics, more chat, “shall we move to Kik?” - silence

What I didn’t tell her when she shared her pic was that she had shared that pic under a different profile (in many respects) had vanished previously, 2 years on, did exactly the same

Makes we wonder all sorts of things.

Hey ho. On we go

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Respectful_Caring - 07 Jan, 2021 - 08:56AM

Experience it and you still don't find going well. You might find me available

AliceH - 06 Jan, 2021 - 10:37PM

You can’t be sure really until you go for it. It’s a matter of weighing up the risk and reward. Questioning what you’re doing only makes you human 😊

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Live, life, love - 06 Jan, 2021 - 05:52PM

Hi, there are no guarantees in life especially on here.... Best not to have any expectations but if you've met someone and found mutual attraction have a couple more meets (not easy in lockdown😝) and then decide