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1117169 - 06 Jan, 2021 - 10:10AM

@ Canterbury Man

As many others have said and I have found, most ladies are on here to browse / windowshop and maybe chat and flirt online and have no real intention of or ability to meet anybody even in " Normal "circumstances. When they become bored or are unable or unwilling to keep the conversation going or have to face the prospect of actually meeting you they ghost you and move on to someone else.

If you have been chatting for a while and do not get a positive reaction to the suggestion of planning a meeting ( Difficult at the moment of course) then move on and dont look back. There are some very genuine ladies on here who do want to meet and have the ability to do so, but they are rare and you have to work hard to find them but you will soon suss them out sooner or later.

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1393321 - 06 Jan, 2021 - 10:09AM

@Canterbury man

What keeps a lady interested in your conversation? Personal interest. Women often get the impression men are just after sex, stand out from that crowd :-)

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Paul 07914 - 04 Jan, 2021 - 06:11PM

Only take me that move if you are 100% sure it is what you want and need in your life,after all it’s you that has to live with it and lie if asked by your partner,good luck

1372703 - 04 Jan, 2021 - 03:52PM

After some time deliberating last year, I have joined to find where life will take me next. I guess Christmas got in the way so hoping 2021 will be a better year all around. What I have not learnt yet is what keeps a lady interested in carrying on a conversation.. :-)

1366164 - 03 Jan, 2021 - 10:49PM

Let me show you the way? X

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1386735 - 01 Jan, 2021 - 09:34AM

FineWineTime

No, no, no... DO NOT give out your telephone number until you have met and are happy to move forward. If you’ve got a burner phone then yes feel free to give out your number...but I hope the majority of sensible women in here do not give out their number that easily.

Face to face is critical and doable, even in lockdown, just need to think outside the box a little, which a fair few are unable to do on here!

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1103595 - 31 Dec, 2020 - 09:19PM

People do just disappear or I feel some guy is getting lots of dates?

I think you have to meet up for a coffee or chat. Face to face is critical. But in Lockdown near impossible.

I found kik is particularly useless and unlucky. Whatapp is more likely to lead to a face to face or better chat.

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1241471 - 23 Dec, 2020 - 05:19PM

Miles Hall it definitely happens to women too. It’s called ‘ghosting’, and some otherwise charming men have done it to me. Something else catches their eye and off they go.
If I decide to stop messaging someone I try to be honest and polite about it. But sometimes that results in angry men putting their Caps Lock on and hurling streams of abuse, before blocking me so I can’t respond. That kind of experience may be why some people choose to just disappear instead.

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SAYSomething x - 23 Dec, 2020 - 02:23PM

@Trickyten just read your profile and you sound lovely. I'd talk to you - but you're too far away lol

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Trickyten - 23 Dec, 2020 - 02:10PM

Sixteen attempts at getting some sort of reply and nothing commeth. there by way of a reply Not one.And I think I’m fairly literate and at times amusing.Just one nibble would be nice .Why are the ladies on here so worried about taking a step onto the unknown Are they just here for titillation Surely not

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