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1117169 - 01 Oct, 2020 - 01:01PM

@Butterfly600

You are absolutely right.

There are real people behind the profiles ( Though I do wonder about the auto generated template ones sometimes) sending the messages and contributing to the forum.

Those that don't see that are in fantasyland.

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1266637 - 01 Oct, 2020 - 11:53AM

Think that’s the point everyone’s trying to make , this is a part of real life , a few posts are sounding like here isn’t real life , unless your just on here virtually it isn’t , hotel meets dates , are real life in real world ,

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1266637 - 01 Oct, 2020 - 08:38AM

Rosebud he had the uniform , he was actually a scaffolder , but if you like dress up , and I get your words , 😁

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1393321 - 01 Oct, 2020 - 08:27AM

Sportster1200L

What do you mean by 'window shopper'?

I go on dates, I do hotel meets if I want to but I don't want to be in someone's pocket or their real life, that's what I meant by the 'real world' and the 'affair world'.

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1117169 - 01 Oct, 2020 - 06:38AM

@Rose Bud

Full marks to you for admitting that you are a windowshopper.

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Wanderlust134 - 30 Sep, 2020 - 11:51PM

It is scary moving from the virtual to the real. But that is where the reward lies.

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Liltink - 30 Sep, 2020 - 10:41PM

You won't know its right... but trust your instincts ..... I'm a firm believer whilst its fun, makes you smile and gives you butterflies .... run with it.

1393321 - 30 Sep, 2020 - 09:04PM

@Butterfly600

In the real world I always fancied my married line manager...until he split up with his wife! We get on like a house on fire but it's too real, I like the unobtainable...I like to dip my toe in and then return to the hum drum of my normal life. I like a website that wets my toes for me, I like this IE world. That's what I mean by the real world and the affair world.

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1393321 - 30 Sep, 2020 - 08:54PM

@Butterfly600

Airline pilots, you say? I would love an airline pilot, aviator sunglasses and all.... swoon!

liaisons123 - 30 Sep, 2020 - 08:44PM

Follow your gut. It's better to regret something you have done than missing out and wondering what if...

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