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1266637 - 30 Sep, 2020 - 08:15PM

And I agree about the comments here , the real person comes through , we’re all different thank god , and better because , have fun

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1266637 - 30 Sep, 2020 - 08:08PM

Rosebud of course I get what your saying , if you feel safer here win win , but all those thoughts rules apply anywhere , everyone on here is in the real world too , and most affairs happen with someone you already know work recreational, etc , so you actually know the real personality in everyday life , not embellished as it can be here , I didn’t know there were so many airline pilots and brain surgeons here 😁

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Your Sexy Woman - 30 Sep, 2020 - 08:01PM

It may be the right thing for you ... or it may not. We are all different.

It is a massive step, that first time. And there is no going back once you've crossed that line.

I thought I'd feel a great sense of guilt. I didn't and still don't. I struggled with the deceit, but that resolved itself over time.

You might find that it turns into a one-off encounter. Is that ok with you if that happens and your expectations may change over time, as the relationship evolves. An affair is an ever changing state ... can you handle all that it throws at you.

For me it has added a new dimension to my life and I have no regrets whatsoever.

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Chezley - 30 Sep, 2020 - 05:58PM

In their heyday Marks and Spencer did a good line in guarantees.

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1404714 - 30 Sep, 2020 - 05:22PM

We all joined this site looking for that extra something that's missing in our day to day relationships. With patience, dedication and good manners you will have conversations with some great people one of whom you will meet and have an affair with. Have faith and trust your instincts but be prepared for the long haul - this isn't one night stand territory.

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1117169 - 30 Sep, 2020 - 04:54PM

To be honest if someone has decided to take the considerable risk of having an affair, the last thing they want is for their chosen partner to turn out to be a " Flake"

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1393321 - 30 Sep, 2020 - 04:31PM

@Butterfly600

I had more to say but ran out of characters.... And now I've forgotton! Haha.

The upshot is, I feel safer on here. Men are married and they will not expect me to attend their family events or be in their pockets like a regular boyfriend might. Getting to know men on here suits me very well. And I like this forum feature, I think it really helps to see how people tick, and it has made me want to message men because I've liked their comments and when we've met it has been a really nice date.

I'm sure you'll have all sorts of things you like about this site, I would love to know what? :-)

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1393321 - 30 Sep, 2020 - 04:24PM

@Butterfly 600

This is my perception of the rules:-

We join this site KNOWING the person we are interested in is married and they are not going to be a standard boyfriend/girlfriend, we know they will have limited time and matching schedules will require patience, we know not to be demanding but if the frequency is not enough we will move on to someone else, we know not to give our number out and use kik etc, we know to be discreet and walk into the hotel separately and we also know that the liaison is for the moment and to have fun with it. By reading the comments on the forum we see what is expected by others and if it is for us too.

Personally I feel more comfortable here than at mainstream sites where I met too many weirdos. I have only met nice men on this site, even if they are not my type, and I feel confident I can weed out anyone unsuitable from how they message me. I could be wrong and maybe it's different for the men on here, perhaps they have to be more careful of unsuitable women, I don

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gemini2310 - 30 Sep, 2020 - 03:36PM

You will know after the first time if it's going to be an affair or not it has to be what you both want and if you want exclusive with each other you will proberly feel guilty at first but only you can decide what you do next

Secret_fun2020 - 30 Sep, 2020 - 02:53PM

You only know if it is right for you after the first time. I remember thinking I would feel terribly guilty, but actually I didn't. Then I knew this was right for me. It may not turn out that way for you, but it is certainly worth finding out

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