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1614937 - 20 Dec, 2023 - 12:27AM

I'm surprised at the number of women who say that they find it difficult to say "sorry, you're not for me - good luck in your search ". I get that message almost every time I share my password.

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BustyBoo22 - 19 Dec, 2023 - 11:10PM

Maybe the site could add a generic reply to be used in this situation. It is a difficult convo to have for sure.

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indepth12 - 19 Dec, 2023 - 10:17PM

Am new here to make new friends may not be everyone’s cup of tea but sure luv to listen to what you have to say :)

Paula99 - 19 Dec, 2023 - 08:48PM

I am with you TBH …sometimes constructive feedback is seen as being offensive and rude ..

I am neither but you can’t please everyone ☹️

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TheBoredHousewife - 19 Dec, 2023 - 08:30PM

I tried giving some constructive feedback to someone yesterday (couldn’t quite see his face from the angle), and got told that I was being rude.

Sometimes we can’t win 🤷‍♂️

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1586700 - 19 Dec, 2023 - 08:09PM

Just be honest and say it..thanks, bit for me you don't have the thing that I am am looking for.
Ok as a bloke it would (eventually) be obvious that you (no necessarily you personally) didnt do it for me .. better now than later.

Btw do you think ghosting is just as bad? Yes it is easy, but better to take control and say this is what I'm after and don't apologise, (but alsdo don't be dick about it) even so..I'm just erratically crap at getting back to people .. and that is bad enough.

Paula99 - 19 Dec, 2023 - 07:32PM

Liebhaberin….

Explain that to the ones that haven’t got the bollox to say it straight to your face and disappear 👻..

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1632113 - 19 Dec, 2023 - 07:18PM

“There are so many ways of killing a cat” and being blunt by saying, you not my type isn’t one of them.
“I appreciate your interest in my profile but can’t say the same with yours, wishing you all the best”, could be one of them.
Let’s be mature whiles we trying to enhance our lives 😊

Paula99 - 19 Dec, 2023 - 06:30PM

It seems Quasimodo has a regular post in here ..I wonder where that came from 😂😂😂

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ExoticOrchid - 19 Dec, 2023 - 05:03PM

There really is no need to be so blunt and say "you're not attractive" ... I would never say that to anyone, not even to Quasimodo!

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