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Sheila205 - 19 Nov, 2024 - 06:19PM

I am in Lymington tonight and available to meet for a chat and laugh

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Sheila205 - 19 Nov, 2024 - 05:38PM

Hi

I am in Lymington tonight if anyone would like to join me

💋💋💋

TheBoredHousewife - 19 Nov, 2024 - 04:30PM

Whatever the frequency is, it has to be substantial enough to feel like the other party is still into you, not just throwing in the same one liner all the time to keep their place on your contacts list.

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blueeyed_man - 19 Nov, 2024 - 04:27PM

Paula99 - if I come out of this with Dick as my best mate I will have done something wrong! But each to their own... 🤣

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Clickable Connection - 19 Nov, 2024 - 03:30PM

I personally prefer daily messages, doesn't need to much , but just a little something. Long silences I feel sends out a message that they maybe not be into as much as they say.

The whole point of this , is the feeling of being desired - and there's many ways to do that. Messaging is one way to tell your partner, I'm thinking about you.

But ultimately it comes down to the two individuals and their expectations and needs. So yes good communication once again is key...... just talk about it

Paula99 - 19 Nov, 2024 - 03:25PM

It is important to feel comfortable’ with each other …you will discover that if he/she is the right person then the comms will flow naturally…you should be able to chat about your ‘normal’ day …what you are cooking ..what you like to do after work etc etc …add in the innuendo here and there and there should be a twinkle in her/his eye and before you know it ..you have a date … then have a laugh bobs your uncle …Fannys your aunt …Dicks your best mate ….😂😂😂

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Willworkforwine - 19 Nov, 2024 - 03:17PM

Like a lot of other folk here, I like daily messaging. But as with all good interactions, really clear communication about expectations goes a long way. 😊

blueeyed_man - 19 Nov, 2024 - 03:04PM

Enigma, no talk about the weather? Even though there is snow? 🤣

I agree, I don't really want to wait days for a reply. Just establishing a decent chat seems to be the first hurdle though? Like I say, new here and feel a bit like the person at a party that doesn't know anyone yet, looking around finding someone to talk to...

Enigma.. - 19 Nov, 2024 - 02:25PM

If a male is only available to “message” every few day’s!!
Then it’s a goodbye from me 👋🏻.
It only takes a few seconds or minutes to send a message.
If they can’t manage that then 🚩.
I’m not one of those demanding females who wants messages etc 24/7… but if you cannot keep in touch at least once or twice a day then what impression does that leave 🤔?
It gives me the impression you are not really interested.
Especially when your conversation drops down to talking about the weather etc 🥱😴.
Ok… we can’t all be available 24/7, unless you are desperate or have lot’s of time on your hands lol, but everyone’s phone may not an extension of their arm and I do understand there are times when someone can’t get in touch.
Communication is key… you need to explain how often you can communicate and when you cannot and why!
If not… I wouldn’t be surprised if you find yourself ghosted or blocked.
Oh! The joys of modern dating sites 😂🙄😉😏😁.
Married or n

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marklondonengland - 19 Nov, 2024 - 01:26PM

It's so funny that "problems" like this are considered problems between adults. You can just ask... You can say that you would like to stay in touch daily or a couple of times a week or weekdays are difficult. Just communicate... or are we answering the problem pages of Just Seventeen?

And if you don't feel comfortable or able to ask a question about communication then how can you be comfortable naked together in a hotel room?

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