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logicboy - 17 Oct, 2023 - 10:25AM

My last comment does t seem to ha e made it through the ether. I must've mentioned the unmentionable! 🤣

I tend to feel guilty if I don't reply to a question or do t say good night to indicate I'm going to bed and won't be replying. I've come across all sorts of different behaviours in others including plenty of ghosting unfortunately. 👻😿

1401293 - 14 Aug, 2021 - 05:06PM

I think regardless of the home situation, everyone is capable of sending at least one message a day....even if it's done whilst on the loo!
Seriously....if they are interested, they will text

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Funseekingsean - 18 Jun, 2021 - 01:11AM

Can’t say as of yet just joined so no connections yet but I suppose I would say whatever is agreeable between both people, a quick connection daily would be nice to receive once there’s no pressure after all aren’t we all here for different reasons yet also to have fun

lonely_lovely - 17 Jun, 2021 - 11:32PM

Every day if he wants to keep me!

1317379 - 10 Jun, 2021 - 07:46PM

Once a week is enough quite frankly, don't act too keen

1455445 - 07 Jun, 2021 - 11:46AM

My previous I.e
We'd meet weekly, but contact every other day or sometimes late at night. It would depend on his work and when the wife was around.
If the pattern of someone changes with no explanation. I found they are losing interest.

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TheLancsRose - 06 Jun, 2021 - 10:19PM

It depends on the intensity of your relationship. If you are meeting every week or more often I'd say at least daily contact. If you go for weeks between meetings then there may be less communication. In the end thought it really depends on what you are both happy with. If your needs are not being met you need to say so.

1386735 - 06 Jun, 2021 - 12:06PM

I always say if someone is thinking about you and wants to message you, then they will...regardless of their situation. Most people are on their phones a fair bit so a quick message just to say whatever is not that difficult. If they are interested they will find a way. Simples...😁

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Relaxed Vibes - 06 Jun, 2021 - 10:28AM

Exactly what CattusNippus says. No one is that busy that they can’t sneak a message or two out if they’re really interested.

And like ExoticOrchid says, it’s always very telling to see the level of interest either wane or continue after an intimate meet.

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1360266 - 06 Jun, 2021 - 10:19AM

I’ve chatted with guys who will communicate daily and then some who can only message between the hours of 9-5 Mon to Fri. Either way I would respect their situation.
However, if or ever, 😉 I meet someone, I’d prefer regular contact so the latter wouldn’t be ideal.