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FluffyClouds - 17 Oct, 2023 - 03:36PM

Sometimes I may not be in the right headspace for messaging, depends what's going on in the background of my personal life. Weekends can be problematic for some. But anyone who can't message over a whole week isn't worth wasting your time on. If they can't find the time why should I?

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1529050 - 17 Oct, 2023 - 03:33PM

I do not think the good night or good morning texts are unrealistic and should not be expected - nice if they happen.

We all have lives just be realistic.

1626089 - 17 Oct, 2023 - 01:20PM

Daily.. sometime more often ... depends on nature of relationship

DefinitelyMightBe - 17 Oct, 2023 - 12:27PM

Agree with Lusty - not everyone is glued to their phone everyday (yes, honestly) and people have work and life in general to deal with on a day-to-day basis.

It’s not just men who ghost either by the way.

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1629647 - 17 Oct, 2023 - 12:24PM

I love a good morning and a good night text. Even throw in the occasional erotic thread to build the excitement between meets.
I do like messages throughout the day where possible, but I also like to call when we can, as I love hearing his voice....it gives me goosebumps and keeps the connection alive.

Might sound needy but for the right man he wouldn't be disappointed xx

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Lusty40 - 17 Oct, 2023 - 11:57AM

I am a big time texter, but appreciate that some are not.
Find out first if they are & obviously got to consider their work & home life. How easy is it to communicate. That way you won’t worry so much if there’s not an instant reply.
But I like it when I get daily messages to keep up the excitement

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ExoticOrchid - 17 Oct, 2023 - 11:29AM

DG - 11:15AM

Totally agree.

(I'm still surprised by how many men here lack the cajones and just 👻!)

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ExoticOrchid - 17 Oct, 2023 - 11:26AM

R1990 - 10:58AM

Honey, there is no 100% guarantee in life ... be prepared to take some risks in life ... there are genuine people here as well as scammers ... that's just the way the cookie crumbles ... just keep your wits about you. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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1529050 - 17 Oct, 2023 - 11:15AM

I am happy with some contact - I do not expect daily messages (yes lovely if we can but no drama if it does not happen). I def do not need a daily Good Morning or Good night message.

It is annoying if you ask a question and get a reply 3 days later - but hey it is life.

I think there definitely has to be contact in between meets. If I guy drops off contact and it goes for days or weeks then it is bye - I am patient but even I have limits and I would rather a guy had the balls to say it is over than ghost...

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Rjrj1990 - 17 Oct, 2023 - 10:58AM

No connections as of yet because I'm hesitant to pay for a potential scam service. Who can vouch for the reliability of this site?