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Bobby224 - 18 Oct, 2023 - 06:48AM

Beckysharp

I do agree with you. We are adults not love struck teenagers and for the right person a middle ground can be met. I was just sharing my feelings and experiences that messaging daily was I think a factor in the longevity of my affairs especially with infrequent meets. So it was an important factor for my partner and me, doesn’t mean I’m right!

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Enigma.. - 17 Oct, 2023 - 09:13PM

@Bobby224

I should imagine most people come onto the site, regardless of whether it’s morning, noon, evening or night, when they can.

1408586 - 17 Oct, 2023 - 09:11PM

I was thinking similar Bobby224. Presumably the people posting here are biased to wanting frequent messaging as we are messaging on here!

Ime a lot of people are not into messaging but are great in person. I think as long as a happy middle ground is found I’m ok with that

Succubus69 - 17 Oct, 2023 - 08:50PM

I'm quire partial to a good morning and good night text myself
Proves that they are thinking of me which makes me feel special

Bobby224 - 17 Oct, 2023 - 08:47PM

Enigma

I totally understand that there will be days where people can’t message, that will be the case in every affair. It was more important for me in my two affairs as we could not meet as often as we may of liked in both affairs. I can see if you are meeting very regularly then it may not be as important? Also depends on the affair the individuals are after. I have always enjoyed very meaningful affairs with feelings but no confusion if that makes sense? But getting very close with my partner in crime.

I will add though the same people seem to be on these forums most nights so surely they can spare a message most nights!

Bobby224 - 17 Oct, 2023 - 08:35PM

Legs&Eyes

You are very kind, I have read lots of your posts and yes I agree it’s a shame m so far away...

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Enigma.. - 17 Oct, 2023 - 08:26PM

Ps…
I too would like to contact someone on a daily basis.
But… sometimes it’s not always possible 😕🤷🏼‍♀️.
Just saying 💋

Enigma.. - 17 Oct, 2023 - 08:22PM

I know that communication can be difficult, at times, for me and others.
I don’t have access to my mobile during working hour’s“security”… bet that’s got you all wondering what I do for a living lol 😉.
I’m, very obviously, not going to use the company’s IPads or laptops, shared by several work colleagues, to sent messages via the site, email or WhatsApp etc…
I can only speak for myself, and I’m always upfront about this, I’ll message when I can 😊.
I’ll explain the situation and then it’s up to the male.
Everybody on this site has different circumstances home, family, job etc… wise.

Forbidden-Fruit - 17 Oct, 2023 - 08:09PM

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not a stalker but I like to text my partner on a daily basis and during the day if possible granted sometimes it’s not always possible like a team meeting, family etc. but it’s definitely a nice distraction or receive a sexy message from your partner. I have learned from being here, be upfront and set/agree on boundaries and how like to communicate in between meets.

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Paula99 - 17 Oct, 2023 - 07:49PM

If you want to get anywhere …you have to text to keep the prospective affair alive

I prefer to keep in contact and a message or two every day is ok …sometimes we can’t message and I do understand……

If you are not comfortable with texting then tell your affair….but keep the lines of communication open..

Remember we like to be kept in the loop…🧐

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