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In it for the thrill

I get a rush from the secrecy of an affair - it's a thrill. Does this happen to anyone else? Nothing gets me going more.

Interested to hear peoples opinions on this one, is it a normal fetish?

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Muslim Wife - 10 Aug, 2021 - 10:15AM

yeah I hate to say it but the taboo aspects of the affair and the secrecy of it all is a huge turn on for me.

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1468440 - 09 Aug, 2021 - 08:10PM

For me its the excitement of meeting someone new, secret texting with the risk of getting caught, planning a way to meet all adds to the thrill

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1465714 - 30 Jul, 2021 - 12:55PM

I get sexually excited and turned on when going to meet someone I have never met before who has the same interests as yourself. You just go with the Flo.


Funtobe22 - 28 Jul, 2021 - 05:36PM

So exciting is an affair I get so worked up in a nice way


luckystar20 - 28 Jul, 2021 - 05:44AM

l am old school.. l like the traditional way of dating, meeting someone, i.e they call it wooing between a man and a woman get to know each other First establsh a rappo, establish if there is a spark between each other - its the basic rule of lying a foundation before any intimacy happens .Why? Coz the foundation is what is going to build a solid link between a man and a wife -. l enjoy the thrill of the chase - build up to finally getting initimate between a man and a woman. The desire to want someone HOT overrules any desire in the entire world, it is priceless, better still if the spark is mutual "instant sparks" - then it turns into "liquid hotsex" .Thereafter, everytime a man and a woman sets eyes on each other - they are all over each other like a "rash" .This feeling is so hot "just touching each other melts each otehrs hearts -having hot sex anywhere -standing up pinned against the wall, on the floor, on a table etc "oh la la "


Nadia747 - 27 Jul, 2021 - 07:44PM

Me too , I sometimes struggle to get my breath for a few seconds until I tell myself to relax.
I get excited and the feelings is like ( breath in and breath out.
Otherwise I get very disappointed when a man approaches with ( I don't want anything serious, discretion at all the times no leaving anything behind....guess what before I know he now falling for me ( I love you already said ) ooh !!! a bit like a S.A fridge magnet.
Yeah yeah- I don't want anything serious well - can we have sex , hold hands?

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Paul 1289 - 26 Jul, 2021 - 03:18PM

Yes indeed! It feels so good.


Hornybloke 241 - 21 Jul, 2021 - 01:35PM

The buzz of excitement from meeting someone who is attached is beyond words


orchid1967 - 16 Jul, 2021 - 11:17AM

completely agree with Mandy62. I don't have time for a full time relationship and the 'baggage' that can come with it.
At the present time an affair ideally suits my situation. This may of course change, but Hey! I'm a woman and we change our minds!

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1463136 - 16 Jul, 2021 - 06:05AM

As someone who, as an independent woman, chooses to have a lover rather than a partner I can only speak for myself. I don’t want the added responsibility of another persons life or the angst and insecurities of a full blown relationship. I don’t have the time to devote to it. So, for me, a lover is ideal. I get everything I need and no extra laundry etc (Although I do get through clean sheets at a rate of knots). To say it is all about the thrill, I feel, is a little simplistic. We all go into this for many reasons.

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