In it for the thrill
I get a rush from the secrecy of an affair - it's a thrill. Does this happen to anyone else? Nothing gets me going more.
Interested to hear peoples opinions on this one, is it a normal fetish?
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Borderline847 - 16 Jul, 2021 - 01:24AM
I still get excited after 9 years of an on off IE relationship although I treat every meeting as if it will be the last. On an enforced break at the moment due to holidays and health and family issues!!
1459408 - 14 Jul, 2021 - 01:12PM
Now come on everybody although we may say to ourselves I don’t really want to be on this type of site deep deep deep down inside we do all of us female and male
It’s for the fun it’s for the excitement it’s for the rush it’s for the not knowing it’s for the mind on mind the body on body the skin on skin We all have our own foibles some foibles more acceptable than others
So let’s keep all the semantics out of it we’re all cheaters and so long as we don’t hurt the other people in our lives then we will continue to do this until we decided enough is enough and go fully back to our other lives. So please keep it real everybody keep it real oh yes and as we all like to say have fun
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WolfDancer2015 - 13 Jul, 2021 - 11:23AM
Have to agree with this. The idea of a sceret liason, and the assoicated messages, phone calls and of course meets, brings back much needed excitement. There is a thrill when you see a notification to say you have a message.
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Roberto301 - 06 Jul, 2021 - 11:00PM
It definitely makes you feel excited and alive again
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Anton555 - 06 Jul, 2021 - 08:48PM
Your IE won't last forever, if you are close the end will hurt and unlike normal relationships you will have no one to talk to about your feelings.
Be selfish and focus on yourself and try to see this life from a different angle. I urge you to talk to someone, ideally a professional and begin to build your self esteem, confidence, happiness and motivatation.
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Anton555 - 06 Jul, 2021 - 08:48PM
Thank you for your comments about my issues and I will take them on board
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1329251 - 06 Jul, 2021 - 05:54PM
I've always loved that side of it, being a married man's little secret. The way I saw it in my teens(albeit I know I was very naive) was that I was getting what his wife didn't want or like anymore. That buzz of being in the house when the cat was away......but I suppose in hindsight the risk was all his end of the day x
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1459578 - 06 Jul, 2021 - 04:10PM
There's definitely a thrill in meeting up with someone who might become a lover...knowing that both of you there's curiosity and anticipation...it only grows when you start to become intimate. For me there's that thrill of the first kiss with a new lover.. discovering how they move and what they get turned on by.
I'm not sure if say it's a fetish but if you in a sexless marriage it's certainly hard to live without once you've tried it.
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1462366 - 06 Jul, 2021 - 03:57PM
yep very true
Princess0121 - 06 Jul, 2021 - 02:30PM
Back to the subject in question.
I do agree that a secret affair is exciting and if you meet a nice partner in crime then it can be a wonderful experience.
It's a nice feeling knowing someone desires you and can't wait to make passionate love to you.
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