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Fulfilling Long-term Relationships

I was lucky enough to click with the very first guy I met on IE. It was short-lived and I assumed that was the nature of liaisons on a married dating site. This time I found another lover…and it’s been going strong for several years!!! We’re not in love, but we are completely in lust ….still!! Have others found similarly fulfilling long-term relationships here?

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Sanosatr - 04 Nov, 2021 - 04:19PM

I am in total agreement with you. For me it would be great to meet someone, who reads from the same page.


1486981 - 31 Oct, 2021 - 09:04PM

I would settle for a long term partner in a similar position to me
Very new on here so it would be nice to just have a chat to start with

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Youandme2 - 30 Oct, 2021 - 09:16AM

I think alot of people have several partners on the go so it's difficult to find a long term exclusive person. Also if it's more than just a hook up you might find you can't separate it from your other life and it will eat into your other relationship, destabilising it further over time.


1466140 - 25 Oct, 2021 - 03:38PM

I am looking for a LTR. I want a LTR because I am looking for more than just a physical relationship.

I want friendship, emotional connection, and intimacy. I also want to feel needed by another woman, and vice versa.

My marriage is complex and I am not going to go into details. The decision to seek someone else to get into a relationship was never taken lightly.

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1482721 - 25 Oct, 2021 - 09:35AM

I would really like to find a long term friend and lover on here, reading the comments below, as a newbie, it’s telling me, it’s going to be very hard, unless you just want a casual hookup

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1117169 - 25 Oct, 2021 - 07:34AM

@EmnEm123

I agree and is there also any chance of admin deleting posts from members that dont contribute anything to the subject of the current debate but are simply posted to promote themselves?

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EmnEm123 - 24 Oct, 2021 - 10:01PM

Any chance of getting rid of that garbage video clip?
I'm sure everyone who wants to has seen it.
Like a lot of us on here it's a wee bit passed its use by date!!!

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1363556 - 24 Oct, 2021 - 08:12PM

finding someone for a LTR is hard on here, they may say thats what they want but in reality they just want sex. There is a different feel about this site from a few years back, its more like a regular dating site now, so many singles and divorced. I wish they would go back to just having married men.

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1481947 - 24 Oct, 2021 - 12:15AM

Many of my liaisons have been short term… I like it like that, 3-4 months then something happens or someone else catches my eye.
I’ve had a few slightly longer affairs, my new rule is don’t date a single ! That’s a real head fuck. I took all the risks and got very little back … should have known better treading into those ‘muddy waters’

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1483842 - 23 Oct, 2021 - 09:25PM

This is the same as in all relationships. We are such complex creatures. Someone somewhere will fulfil a part of our lives we lack. This is no different. Is it actually possible to get the whole package in one person or do we have to continue to sacrifice our very selves? No, I do not believe so. People, stop bleating about what we haven't got because on here we have. Why are these questions being asked if the whole of is are being fulfilled?

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