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I like being a mistress...

I was married for a while and when I divorced I decided that relationships aren’t for me. I can’t be doing with all of the angst and insecurities. In 20 years I have been the mistress/lover of 4 men. I like being a mistress. Just great sex and no laundry!! Your thoughts please. X

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LadyDe - 17 Mar, 2025 - 01:48PM

My husbands mistress is single and I don’t worry or feel threatened in the slightest …

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Paula99 - 17 Mar, 2025 - 12:33PM

ManAlive2025….Why does it appear to be the ‘females’ always want more?

Single women seem to get the blame for this but believe me there are some bloody unscrupulous married people in here….by the way I am not single. …married or not we all have a lot to loose some more than others but you have decided to join the club and obey the rules you must ..

Being a mistress isn’t what is cracked up to be ...for some it can be a lonely place …no one to talk too and you have your ‘absent ‘ times when your lover is with his family ..

For those that like the idea and having a no frills option then go for it ….😊

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sudboy70 - 17 Mar, 2025 - 12:29PM

Have to agree with man-alive both people know what they are in for and can put safety measures in place so their respective partners don't get hurt.

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Man_Alive_2025 - 17 Mar, 2025 - 11:09AM

As a married guy I think being with someone who is also married has a lot of advantages, especially, alongside the buzz of complicity, around the mutual understanding of the risks we are taking, wanting to protect each other at all costs and both understanding the planning thats sometimes needed in order to meet. Of course, seeing someone who is more available has its advantages too, but when I did that she ended it quite quickly when she realised she wanted something more permanent.

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Unhommesympa - 17 Mar, 2025 - 10:18AM

Sounds good to me, good luck to you 👍

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budgie817 - 17 Mar, 2025 - 09:19AM

Nothing wrong with that, only issue would be if it ever came to romantic attachment by either party. Just because it did’t work out before doesn’t mean it never will.
But there are clear advantages of having a relationship that is just a section of your life and has nothing beyond its defined boundary.
To have a part of life drama free and just for the exchange of pleasure can be liberating and healthy.
Good luck to you.

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giggly hamster - 20 Mar, 2024 - 12:03PM

Sod bringing back the 70’s

I’ve read the joy of sex and apparently I’ve got to have a beard and a thicket hedge down below.🥸

Nope.. nope, and thrice nope.

Clean shaven or stubble at the most and a waxed undercarriage for me I tell thee. Smooth runway, none of that undergrowth malarkey.


Legs&Eyes - 20 Mar, 2024 - 07:09AM

Loopey45

Seems the profile name extends beyond just a profile name.

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Paula99 - 19 Mar, 2024 - 05:32AM

Loopey45…

I hate to drag you from the pulpit ….bunny boilers come in all forms …not just single people…

When you are in an IE relationship then it’s inevitable that you will become a little attached as time goes on but it doesn’t mean all marrieds lack self control or boundaries…stereotyping isn’t the way forward….if you prefer a clinical mistress then there are plenty of them around but you need to get your credit card out ….

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EmnEm123 - 18 Mar, 2024 - 09:19PM

Loopy

You're a big hit for yourself!😐

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