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Braveheart35 - 23 Jan, 2025 - 04:17AM

The first time we met outside a busy city centre restaurant having already booked a hotel beforehand the day before...we were both up for it and my lady ie pounced on me in the lift up to our room...lets just say we had a very delicious afternoon together which was repeated again and again.

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LoverLee951 - 22 Jan, 2025 - 08:47PM

It really depends on chemistry...sometimes things can take a little time, there might be a little nervousness on both sides, for instance...but sometimes its good to take a little time, and let excitement build....

World Enough and Time - 22 Jan, 2025 - 05:27PM

I think much depends where the meeting is, what ground has already been covered online, already how comfortable we feel about expressing our desires and where the conversation leads….

Businessgent 59 - 22 Jan, 2025 - 01:33PM

the biggest problem I have found on here is not when you actually meet someone. I have met two ladies and both time s we got intimate on the first date. These ladies knew what they wanted and it happened.

Too my ladies on here want endless chats and do not really want to meet. A red flag to me is someone who will only chat on ie and not any other app and then they only reply every few days. You can build a connection like that

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1715930 - 21 Jan, 2025 - 11:25AM

has to be up to the lady

1601936 - 20 Jan, 2025 - 11:36PM

If the question is about it being 'sexual' than being about 'sex', I'd say it can be so right from the beginning.
Imagine meeting for the first time after a few days of messaging, exchanging a few pics etc. but the moment I see her for the first time in person, there's butterflies in my stomach. That first kiss on the cheek or a handshake (if I'm really unlucky), the first time our skin touch. Gazing in to her piercing eyes, looking at the way she speaks, her scent. Tell me one thing that's not sexual about that. Nothing like that first meet in person.

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FlirtFinder - 20 Jan, 2025 - 09:47PM

I think it's down to the connection between the two people involved. If you're going to have a nice time on the first date and it ends with a kiss or two, it might be good for both to consider something more intimate on the second date. I agree with what other people say: it's about both being comfortable with each other. So the simple answer is: it could be fast or slow.

MoralCompass101 - 20 Jan, 2025 - 09:12PM

I think about 15 to 20 minutes is reasonable……🤔

Kalinski - 20 Jan, 2025 - 07:55PM

If you have spent a good amount time chatting on here and when you the chemistry is there, then why not! However, it is important to ensure that it is “there” for both parties!

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MadameDeMaintenon - 20 Jan, 2025 - 07:42PM

I never get into bed with someone on a first meeting. I think I’m a little hesitant with my old fashioned mistress glasses on, but also because I’m aware that seeking an affair leaves me much more vulnerable in regards to my own safety…

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