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boav91 - 02 Mar, 2024 - 08:44AM

So from my experience so far it depends on connection and where the rest of your relationship is going. The person I am with we had flirted and chatted online for a while, so a connection was there already. Meeting in person only confirmed that as we both really fancied each other and then we just let nature take its course. It really did not take long but then that is what we both wanted and nearly 6 months later it continues to take its course very happily and I think successfully
I think all situations are different . I would say my ie and I are very compatible sexually. . both of us found that with our partners it was just not as satisfying , hence why we are here. Each
Person reason for being here is different and for me it was a reluctant attempt to look to bring a spark back that had otherwise become insidious to what is otherwise a good friendly relationship, it felt more like living with a friend. It had not always been like that. Needed the right person for the sex, and the rest to be amazing

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Blueeyedbeauty84 - 02 Mar, 2024 - 02:32AM

I think it all depends on how the initial meet goes. You know pretty quickly if you’re sexually attracted to one another. If the passion is there why wait…

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Mikey1970 - 02 Mar, 2024 - 12:02AM

I would say that this is very much decided on when both parties start chatting and then meet. Lets face it, you're not going to meet if the other party doesn't do it for you. Once you meet and if you both want the same thing then why not. It's down to the individuals.
I find that many women on here, and I understand the same goes for men, but I don't have experience of that, don't even want to send a thanks but no thanks back to a message so I struggle with the idea that someone arranges to meet and then doesn't want to take it any further.

1649153 - 01 Mar, 2024 - 11:20PM

Depends on the reason you’re here. From the purpose of one meet to a few meets to build the connection

SDream07 - 01 Mar, 2024 - 05:38PM

Men or women who are here for hooks ups are in the wrong site. The same goes to men and women who are looking for a life partner/future husband/wife or soulmate...please go to the right site and leave the rest of us to have an illicit encounter...the name says all no more to explain.

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giggly hamster - 01 Mar, 2024 - 04:45PM

@BlessedTongue - but the food was good yes?

I know that business meeting so well, but it's so much easier than walking in with a mannequin under your arm.

1645560 - 01 Mar, 2024 - 03:41PM

If you aren't touching hands during and a kiss goodbye at the end of the first date, its a business meeting not an affair and it won't lead anywhere. Don't kid yourself there is a connection if there isn't.

I've had women play all sex chatty, you meet and they are ice cold. Ten minutes after the meet they are txt'ing sex chat again what they want to do to you etc, so you think ok maybe they are building up to it! Meet up again and its back to icy, kiss on the cheek as you leave, fun game I guess but there won't be a third meet 🤣🤣

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WineAndOlives - 01 Mar, 2024 - 01:53PM

I've been lucky as most first date lead to an affair. Kiss after the first, snogging at the second, the bedroom on the 3rd. If you know you know I think. Like a good detective, looking for motive and opportunity 🧐

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giggly hamster - 01 Mar, 2024 - 11:15AM

Its easy to forget as well that this site like a swinger site is full of blokes who think that a woman is sat all day in her Linger-ree waiting to open her knees tothe first pm that rattles into the inbox, with their little veiny mars bar flopped on the table like a tenderloin slapped on the counter at the butchers.

It doesn't happen. Not this side of paying by the hour. that one won't care what you look like, how fat or thin you are, or how old or bald you are. It's a hair cut. "doing anything nice for the weekend? , going away this year? " You pay, you play, you walk away.

Everyone here has choices. that's what makes the end result so sweet, so worth the chase.

THinkingwomanshunk - you might want to look at dayuse.co.uk if you haven't already heard about it.

Paula beautiful, - pass another knitting needle my love...

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giggly hamster - 01 Mar, 2024 - 11:04AM

Why does this question seem like an attempt to collect some material to sit in a toilet cubicle and grumble yourself blind to?

How long's a piece of string?

Meet with Shiela and if you click then you're booking the room that same afternoon. Nothing wrong with that.

Whereas I imagine that the swoontastic Tentatrice would make you work for every bite of your lip and clench of your palms as you dance trying to get her to succumb to you as she pushes you away testing you once more to see what you're made of. But it's those encounters that make you go back. Like Paula says, it stays in your mind for days after.

I think, when I read stuff like this all I read is one word - connection. If that's there it's down to the couple to decide if they want panda (eats, roots, shoots, leaves) or something far more intricate and all consuming.

Pander or Panda, it's all about connection.

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