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Dendo64 - 05 Mar, 2024 - 09:29PM

As soon as possible! Lets face it, most of us are here for the extra marital attentions we're missing... and if you you just want to take it slow.. just say so : )

giggly hamster - 05 Mar, 2024 - 06:11PM

EmnEm, I’m going to take my own advice and read the profile. I wrongly though you were a bloke and my reply was based on the said lady perhaps contemplating hosting at her home 🤷‍♂️

As for the stories, well you were obviously there for all of it. But thank you for confirming that they were made up, boring and dragged out, you won’t be burdened with them any longer.

Regarding our Paula, like fluffy, lady De and Tentatrice I’ve enjoyed the verbal jousting, it adds some sparkle to the proceedings. And I admire their wit and rapier sharp reposte’s. I was obviously wrong.

Either way, as you say enough is enough. Point taken.

I’ll take a gentleman’s excuse me and bow out.

The floor is all yours. M’lady. I’m done. The cloud of dragged out boring dull has been lifted.

And yes princess … I am too short to be a stormtrooper

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EmnEm123 - 05 Mar, 2024 - 02:25PM

Giggly hamster

A message between you and Paula99 isn't, 'the word'.

Private message that!

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EmnEm123 - 05 Mar, 2024 - 02:02PM

Giggly hamster

Go on, give us one of your boring, dragged out, made up stories which have nothing to do with anything regarding the question asked.

On second thoughts, enough is enough.

You are not in the least amusing or enlightening

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Marlen - 04 Mar, 2024 - 10:35PM

Inviting into a home is a high risk strategy, if you're married....is it really worth the risk?

As regards the etiquette of when to do what? Really? We're not teenagers on dates?
Go with the flow, but don't force anything...isn't that the point of an IE...not following rules, or convention? The illicit should be sensual, naughty, intoxicating...if its planned like a campaign, you're player, or an accountant?🤣

giggly hamster - 04 Mar, 2024 - 10:27PM

🤦‍♂️

Do read the profile 007.

EmnEm123 - 04 Mar, 2024 - 05:26PM

Arista

I don't think you should invite an IE to your home unless you've met him on several occasions elsewhere, for example hotel meets.

What are his expectations? Cooking him a meal, drinks, a home from home?
That's not really what IE is about.

I'm not sure of your relationship status but beware of the men who target single women presuming that they will 'host'.

If they're too mean to go halves on a hotel it gives you a bit of a clue!

Paula99 - 04 Mar, 2024 - 04:22PM

Inviting someone to your home ..??

This is a strange one for me and it’s something I have only done the once….

You have your family/home
OP has their home/family
What you have in between is your little secret….
Why would you mix business with pleasure?

To add weight to the debate …I had an affair years ago and I went to his house …his wife was away…he cooked dinner and we had a fantastic evening in front of the open fire on a fluffy rug ..it was awesome but the next day we both admitted it felt wierd and it wasn’t something to repeat in the future….we are still friends to this day and chat about it in a fond memory way 😉

Artisa…if you know the person really well and you trust them then you decide for yourself ..STAY SAFE

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FluffyClouds - 04 Mar, 2024 - 03:45PM

Arista -

All I would advise is as a woman, only do that if you are absolutely sure of the person and safe. Ultimately, they'll know your address.

giggly hamster - 04 Mar, 2024 - 02:12PM

To be frank Arista, if it's agreeable to you both just fill your boots. Only you know if you're confortable with it.