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1505288 - 10 Feb, 2022 - 10:22PM

That old trope “we will meet as friends”…

I found that if I had been talking to someone online or by phone for some weeks by the time you finally met you had very few secrets from each other and knew each other extremely well. Often there was nothing else left to do and it was not like jumping into bed with a total stranger, hell they had probably even told me exactly where they liked being tickled…

It didn’t always happen that way

rarity23 - 27 Jan, 2022 - 11:22PM

For me, a first date is to get to know each other, I'd just rather know that we both want to see each other again, and share a kiss, as we leave, with a nice feeling inside of what is to come.

To have sex on a first date would be like a quick hook up and maybe that's more suited to other dating sites.

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Key of Life - 23 Jan, 2022 - 05:32PM

I’m guessing that what lot of us on here miss is a passionate snog in a doorway , a quiet corner in a pub or in the car - that would be a good result , don’t aim too high ( or too low lol ) in a first meet

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1395366 - 21 Jan, 2022 - 10:52PM

I think it depends on the chemistry x

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Wake up smiling - 15 Jan, 2022 - 11:51PM

As long as it’s mutually consensual, as quickly as people want

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tammy2 - 15 Jan, 2022 - 09:58PM

Depends on the type of relationship you are into with your partner, for example my relationship is based on NSA so it’s pretty for me and my partner

Paula99 - 10 Jan, 2022 - 03:56PM

The first time for a guy rarely works...Mr Wiggly generally doesn't want to stay out too long and some guys suffer from performance anxiety...the blue pills are great for this even if you never need them again...like my mum used to say*just incase*

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ukhousewife - 10 Jan, 2022 - 02:24PM

If you have clicked online and then in the flesh I would (god this will sound awful) probably expect things to happen that first meet.

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Ponnierai - 08 Jan, 2022 - 07:00PM

I'd like to met someone that wants to get down dirty and lots of touching feeling and likes to be licked. Xxxx

1117169 - 07 Jan, 2022 - 08:23AM

Don't forget to obtain " Consent" before you do guys and gals, preferably in writing for each stage of intimacy or you might be faced with a sexual abuse claim years later. He says, tongue in cheek.

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