Am I just panicking or should I be concerned?
I’ve been chatting to a guy on here since last October, and wanted to meet him, but due to a family bereavement on his side, a meet hasn’t happened yet.
Recently I’ve really wanted to meet him, but when I mention he says he can’t, as he’s too flakey and concentrating on his family. He has a habit of going awol from chats for weeks at a time, with no word, then comes back, and expects me to be ok about that.
This week he finally decided that he’s like to meet, but I’m worried about the circumstances. The hotel he’s picked is near his workplace, but a 40min drive for me, he doesn’t want to meet for a drink first, just go straight for sex. He’s picked the day, but hasn’t even asked me if it’s convenient for me.
My intuition is telling me to be careful, but I’m not sure if I’m just nervous, as this would be my first affair.
Could anyone that has more experience offer and guidance or gut feelings on this one?
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Doc Johnson - 25 Feb, 2022 - 02:21PM
Avoid at all costs. This sounds risky to me. I would 100% not meet a woman who suggested this for my own safety. How do you know for sure that he will be on his own for example?
You have so many men to choose from...try me, I'm really nice!
I always start with either a chat on the phone or a meet somewhere very public and safe.
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1463136 - 25 Feb, 2022 - 01:31PM
Sack it. If you allow this amount of disrespect and rudeness then more fool you. Any affair has to be built on trust and respect and not much is being shown here. It will only get worse as you keep making allowances. Good luck.
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ExoticOrchid - 25 Feb, 2022 - 01:05PM
Life in the Fast Lane - 09:35AM
Irony is wasted on you ... obviously!!! 🙄
You seem pretty keen on Crackerjack btw.
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Sspartacus8656 - 25 Feb, 2022 - 12:30PM
It is better to meet for a drink for the first time;)
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WychMan - 25 Feb, 2022 - 11:16AM
A man's point of view, if he has any respect, he should at least ask you to meet him before.
Or is that me being over the top ?
If you're only after a ONS you might be inclined to go for it, but if you've been chatting for that long, then I expect that you are looking for more
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Mad World - 25 Feb, 2022 - 09:35AM
@ExoticOrchard
It’s true. Flick the channel…there’s tanks and all sorts.
Makes playing away and identifying Time Wasters akin to an episode of Crackerjack
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ExoticOrchid - 25 Feb, 2022 - 05:32AM
O.M.G. there are countries "invading their neighbours" 😲 ... why is it not being reported in the media ... is there a news blackout or something ... I mean how do we not know about it??? 🤔
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1507582 - 24 Feb, 2022 - 11:44PM
Sod it: If he stands a couple of large gins and likes Lego, I'll meet up with him and report back. What could possibly go wrong?
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Mad World - 24 Feb, 2022 - 10:53PM
They’re probably on a hot date and this is just a ruse to take minds off countries invading their neighbours.
Not a bad ruse in truth
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