Can attraction not just be physical?
I met a wonderful lady recently. We had been chatting for some time, and finally met up. The connection is definitely there. Things have now progressed to the bedroom. Alas physically I am disappointed. Without going into too much detail, it seems that quite a bit of padding support has been used. I really prefer a ‘good handful’. Much as I really like her, my physical desires for what constitutes a woman are not met. I feel I have been lied to, but do not want to hurt her feelings. How do I let her down gently, or do I stay, as she is very keen and I do love her personality?
Thank you for posting this. I genuinely am in a dilemma!
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Doricles - 25 Mar, 2022 - 09:42AM
I'm not sure what I've woken up to this morning, but there's clearly a lot of animosity and bad feelings being expressed between members on this forum today. Terse comments are both unwarranted and uncalled for at anytime! Surely there's more than enough sh!t happening in the world at present: sh!t that makes fallings out on here inconsequential and irrelevant! Its Friday: the weekends upon us and some of us will be engaging in what we're on here for, which is to enjoy some illicit encounters: not punch-ups! So reverting to the original question, if the author is tracking the responses to the dilemma he's facing, please feel free to pass on my details to the lady concerned. And don't worry about 'hurting her feelings' or 'letting her down gently': I'm sure she won't be the least bit bothered about parting company with someone who's only ambition is to find someone with a 'good handful'. I'm sure this lady would have a 'good mouthful' for you if she knew what you'd written: and I'm not referring to her boobs!
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Mad World - 25 Mar, 2022 - 09:18AM
Oh my days…the classic predictive text mistype …although I have to say Ms Exotic…I think Orchard os a perfect fit. One could have a field day with that
As for the rest …if you’re going to give it then you have to take it. And clearly you’re in that bucket. But I repeat…the entertainment factor is without peer. Thank you 🕺
ExoticOrchid - 25 Mar, 2022 - 08:50AM
LitFL - 08:15AM
First of all, it's Orchid not Orchard.
Secondly, I would let the trolls have their say because it shows them up for who/what they are, not who/what I am.
Thirdly, you are entitled to your own opinions regarding moi, no matter how wrong and/or unjustified ... as you say, we are luckily living in a free country (almost ... the woke pc brigade notwithstanding).
Good day to you.
Mad World - 25 Mar, 2022 - 08:15AM
Can we all lay off Exotic Orchard please, this isn’t Pol Pot’s Cambodia or Idi Amin’s Uganda, ladies on those countries equivalent of IE wouldn’t even have a say now.
Exotic - I don’t agree with a single word you say. But I respect it all the same. Thank you for the giggles & laughs.
🕺🕺
ExoticOrchid - 24 Mar, 2022 - 10:59PM
Some are so full of nastiness and bitterness that they have to insult people they don't know just so they can feel better about their pathetic little lives.
Sad really ... one can't help but pity them.
Abid296 - 24 Mar, 2022 - 05:04PM
I think many people would recognise the dilemma. Sometimes a small detail can turn the whole affair flat. Spare a thought for the ladies who are laser sharp on detail! I feel that a minimum of honesty is required. You could say that you like her but that physically you have no reaction towards her. She will be disappointed but would understand. Maybe the lady will be less inclined to embellish in the future.
Chezley - 24 Mar, 2022 - 04:36PM
Exotic
Looks like Emnity 123 is sleeping off a crate of Lidl prosecco. She will surface later.
My customary scorn for your retort to her, as your ability to be accountable is predictably non existent. You are just too shifty by nature.
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1444888 - 24 Mar, 2022 - 09:54AM
“We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love.”
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ExoticOrchid - 24 Mar, 2022 - 08:12AM
EE123 - 01:58PM
Ahh my turn at last from the Queen of Trolls ... where precisely in my one sentence have I claimed to be "the font of all knowledge" pray tell ... 🤔
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