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Can attraction not just be physical?

I met a wonderful lady recently. We had been chatting for some time, and finally met up. The connection is definitely there. Things have now progressed to the bedroom. Alas physically I am disappointed. Without going into too much detail, it seems that quite a bit of padding support has been used. I really prefer a ‘good handful’. Much as I really like her, my physical desires for what constitutes a woman are not met. I feel I have been lied to, but do not want to hurt her feelings. How do I let her down gently, or do I stay, as she is very keen and I do love her personality?

Thank you for posting this. I genuinely am in a dilemma!

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AshleyM76 - 20 Apr, 2022 - 09:08PM

Reading between the lines 'her tits aren't big enough'. Bro, seriously?! 😂😂 Maybe your arse is too flat for her, maybe your nose is too big.

I don't even think this is a real comment. IE wrote it to get people going 😂

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Evertheoptimistic - 20 Apr, 2022 - 08:02PM

To be honest matey it's guys like you who make us all look like dicks. Get a life.

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Delicious Chaos - 20 Apr, 2022 - 07:26PM

Who needs Netflix, this is far more entertaining 😁

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JBeeblebrox - 20 Apr, 2022 - 07:07PM

Wow, you guys are toxic! Even if I did mean it like that I would have thought that a forum on a site designed for extra marital affairs would have been slightly less judgemental about sexuality. I didn’t and I have explained what I did mean a couple of times now so I'm not going to bother trying again. Enjoy the echo chamber.

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Paula99 - 20 Apr, 2022 - 06:27PM

JBeeblebrox...

I'm a woman with a high sex drive so in all honesty I would sleep with a lot of men but I wouldn’t have the desire to go back to most."

I have changed the gender and think about how it is perceived...?

Text is flat and it can be misunderstood 😊😊

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1382700 - 20 Apr, 2022 - 06:15PM

Sorry JB. One is the polar opposite of the other. But after what you call ‘internet rage’ you may be having to manage your sex drive with your right hand.


Peaches1 - 20 Apr, 2022 - 05:49PM

JBeeblebrox - 20 Apr, 2022 - 10:41AM

"I'm a man with a high sex drive so in all honesty I would sleep with a lot of women but I wouldn’t have the desire to go back to most."

Sound like a right catch!! Maybe you should put this on your profile. Who knows you may get lucky 🙄

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martinlong76 - 20 Apr, 2022 - 05:33PM

That guy doesn't deserve to be happy.. whatever happened to passion and imagination making some effort


Pikachiu - 20 Apr, 2022 - 04:57PM

Tbh it depends what you’re after , for me physical and mental attraction it’s the key 🔑 otherwise it’s not enjoyable. Surely you must have seen her body beforehand while chatting for some time ??


JBeeblebrox - 20 Apr, 2022 - 02:15PM

Nope, no U turns. Just a misunderstood initial statement followed by the need to clarify due to a bit of internet rage. Pretty standard!

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