Can attraction not just be physical?
I met a wonderful lady recently. We had been chatting for some time, and finally met up. The connection is definitely there. Things have now progressed to the bedroom. Alas physically I am disappointed. Without going into too much detail, it seems that quite a bit of padding support has been used. I really prefer a ‘good handful’. Much as I really like her, my physical desires for what constitutes a woman are not met. I feel I have been lied to, but do not want to hurt her feelings. How do I let her down gently, or do I stay, as she is very keen and I do love her personality?
Thank you for posting this. I genuinely am in a dilemma!
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1117169 - 20 Apr, 2022 - 02:01PM
@JB
That was one of the fastest "U turns" I have ever seen on here , worthy of Biden's press secretary!
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JBeeblebrox - 20 Apr, 2022 - 01:41PM
Thanks for your comment PM. It's completely the opposite of what I actually said though.
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JBeeblebrox - 20 Apr, 2022 - 01:40PM
I don't agree NWH. All my paragraphs state that the impulse to sleep with a woman is far more easily satisfied than forming a long term relationship with someone. Just because I could have a one time thing doesn't mean I would or would even want to but that's just me. I reckon a lot of people are here due to unsown wild oats.
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Perfect moments - 20 Apr, 2022 - 01:30PM
JBeeblebrox....
Sounds like as if you use women as toys.
Once you played them they get chucked on the back boiler.
Such a nice young man....not
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1382700 - 20 Apr, 2022 - 01:28PM
Think we need some new material to work with
1382700 - 20 Apr, 2022 - 01:27PM
JB
problem is your two paragraphs are completely at odds with one another.
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JBeeblebrox - 20 Apr, 2022 - 12:06PM
Hey Paula99. I didn't say I did but I admit to having the impulse to sleep with far more women on a one off than I would long term. Quite the opposite in fact, I would consider sleeping with a woman once through this process as a failure!
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malachiah - 20 Apr, 2022 - 11:51AM
I can't vouch for others but for me the emotional and mental connection are perhaps most important... Yes of course I need to be attracted to a woman for anything physical to be possible, and it's not that I have low standards but I'd like to think I value my partner far more than looks alone! If I can imagine kissing her, that's key for me - whatever shape or size she happens to be - most of what I find attractive is reflected in touch, voice, intention, attention, etc...
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Paula99 - 20 Apr, 2022 - 11:33AM
JBeeblebrox.
Not really sure its a good idea to admit that you would sleep with lots of women!!!
I do agree that sustaining a long affair takes serious mental connection/ chemistry and a good deal of hard work...
I can't understand how guys can just sleep with anyone.....yes I could do it but I would probably get zero satisfaction
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funlover67 - 20 Apr, 2022 - 11:19AM
Both are important you have to feel it when you first see someone and if you end up in bed together but for me there has to be a mental connection if I can’t talk to a woman and have a laugh with her then the physical side simply would not happen
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