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ThawingTundra - 20 Apr, 2022 - 11:09AM

If you've found chemistry, cherish it!

Once you're in bed, how does it feel? How does she make you feel? If those answers are positive, what's to worry about?

Is this really about the padding, or about the perceived deceit?

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MayMac - 20 Apr, 2022 - 10:52AM

Absolutely! I think mental attraction is just as important as physical however, it depends on what your looking for, if longevity is important then personality matters, don’t compromise though! If you decide it’s not right…. Be honest she may be a little upset but perhaps she should lose the padding and embrace her body, just the way it is!

JBeeblebrox - 20 Apr, 2022 - 10:41AM

I think it depends on the longevity you expect. I'm a man with a high sex drive so in all honesty I would sleep with a lot of women but I wouldn’t have the desire to go back to most. Personally, I’m looking for something as long term as possible so I think we need to have a huge physical and mental attraction so we can sustain it.

It’s just about knowing yourself and not jumping into bed with someone you know you’re not going to want to go back to. Unless they know the score and that’s what you both want.

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1508936 - 18 Apr, 2022 - 06:10PM

@MatureWorcsBBW

Why would this person want to go for coffee with someone they hardly know and you don’t find attractive?

Waste of everyone’s time

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MatureWorcsBBW - 15 Apr, 2022 - 07:29PM

She could've become 1 of your "Let's do coffee" friends.

You don't have to sideline her completely.

1508936 - 14 Apr, 2022 - 07:33AM

Nope

Only unattractive people would think like this as they don’t have a choice

There is a no way a 25/30 year old stunning female (for example) perfect figure is gonna be attracted a 40 year old bald over weight man, other than his wallet perhaps 🤔

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1510609 - 09 Apr, 2022 - 11:35AM

Absolutely.
I am not attracted to someone just physically.
Somebody intelligent, interesting, charming and educated is attractive for me.

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flyingsquirrel1 - 04 Apr, 2022 - 07:03PM

Absolutely. I can find someone physically attractive but if I can’t talk to them, that attraction almost disappears.

1512348 - 03 Apr, 2022 - 11:24PM

Find me I have a big chest, 💯 natural, I have to say, And, I won’t disappoint anyone looking for big jugs.

Anyway, ultimately, if you are looking for something you are missing at home, then, why compromise when in fact at home you are compromising all the time in order to gain peace.

I hope that woman is not compromising either.

It’s a waste of time to compromise with a married man when you can’t get what the Mrs at home gets at the end of the day. (I’m speaking from a single woman who enjoys being a mistress but not a married woman in an affair).

Simply, if you want an affair with me, I have to be the princess so if it’s not working with her, if she not your princess, keep it as good friends- maintain the emotional connection that you both benefit from, surely that’s more valuable that causing her pain and pretending you are enjoying her fake boob jobs.

All love to my sisters out there who are recipients of such a dilemma.

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1488125 - 03 Apr, 2022 - 09:05AM

Can attraction not be physical? Most definitely it can be!

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