What do we really disclose?
Meeting a new person is always exciting. However most of us are meeting illicitly. What are your boundaries when disclosing personal details? Do we reveal our full names, places of work, give details about our family? What type of information are you willing to share? How much is too much?
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Naughty in NW - 19 Apr, 2025 - 09:06PM
Srargeek.......your profile states you like 'fanny people'.
It's helpful that you clarify what gender (if we are still allowed to identify as one of two genders these days) you are looking for. But just for the hell of it you could make it even clearer and use the term 'woman' or 'female' although I grant you that we do indeed have fannies! Sorry, I couldn't resist.
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Paula99 - 19 Apr, 2025 - 08:22PM
Funguy ….
Your use of words and phrases is interesting’ let’s say ..
😬
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Funguy77 - 19 Apr, 2025 - 07:51PM
My sarcasm level is peeking 🤦
Whoever writes this crap needs to get help or just stop 😂😂
Funguy77 - 19 Apr, 2025 - 07:46PM
Meeting someone new’s grand—like pulling on a night out and realising they’ve got all their own teeth. But most of us are sneakin’ about like sexed-up raccoons, hoping nobody clocks us.
I don’t give out my full name unless I’ve seen how they shag and how they argue—'cause both tell you everything. Work? Only if it won’t end up with them stalking me on LinkedIn with one hand down their pants.
And too much? That’s when someone tells you about their arsehole bleaching before dessert. Christ, keep a bit of mystery! Let’s swap filthy grins, not family trauma.
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Stargeek - 19 Apr, 2025 - 07:00PM
So glad l read this thread as new to this but has given me a little insight into what to do and not so thank you fellow I.e peeps
laugar164 - 19 Apr, 2025 - 12:25PM
I never disclose anything nor do I ask if it going to be a long term affair which I have had and the trust is there than you may disclose somethings
But only if you both feel comfortable
I've had the experience of an excuse the pun Easter week but she was a bunny boiler who stalked me. Not nice
Man_Alive_2025 - 19 Apr, 2025 - 11:26AM
Keep it broad at the start. Accurate but not specific. For example, don’t mention your job title but talk about the field you work in. Don’t mention the village you live in but say you live near the biggest well know town. If you move off IE onto another platform then make it less broad as trust develops. It’s just common sense really.
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