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Here we go 693 - 01 Jan, 2025 - 10:47AM

Happy new year everyone. Just being patient and seeing what happens. I'm in no rush to jump headlong into anything just yet. As has been said by far more eloquent people on here, write a good profile, think about what you're trying to convey when sending messages, read the profiles and above all, be polite.

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BerkshireBiker - 01 Jan, 2025 - 09:14AM

But a new calendar. It’s 2025 x

ExoticOrchid - 01 Jan, 2025 - 09:06AM

Wow and now it's 2025 ... wonder how the OP's year was.

Happy New Year everyone!!! 🍾🥂🎉

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1637273 - 01 Feb, 2024 - 09:19PM

You need thick skin.

Generally to get out what you put in - no pun intended.

Write a decent profile, be prepared to write decent messages. Take care with the photos you share.

Spend a long time looking.

Think carefully about that first message.

Be prepared to be rejected many times

No when to stop messaging and meet!

Paula99 - 19 Jan, 2024 - 01:30PM

Don’t expect miracles…Rome wasn’t built in a day.

You will get mesmerised with this …you will get ghosted ..you will get blocked..you will chat to time wasters and general idiots ..you will find lots of people are here for different reasons aka …just to chat ..pen pals ..ONS…so on so forth …always read their profiles even if some are like an essay …choose the person you feel you have ‘common ground’ with so you can engage a conversation..

Remember the way to phrase your words as they can be misinterpreted….but you can’t please everyone so don’t try ..hope this helps 😁

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1639246 - 18 Jan, 2024 - 05:11PM

Firstly - be patient!
Secondly-don’t beat yourself up about being on here. Try and relax and “enjoy” it.
Now I need to go away and follow my own advice….as none of that is easy!
Good luck ! …… x

Enigma.. - 08 Jan, 2024 - 10:34AM

Classy..
Here’s to 2024 🥂🍾.
Here’s hoping, that some of us, find what we are looking for 🥂❤️💋

ClassyLady77 - 06 Jan, 2024 - 09:56PM

I feel the same about 2024.. I want to find a friend and lover. I’m trying to be more open emotionally this year rather than my hard bitch mode.. let’s see what happens..

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1447655 - 06 Jan, 2024 - 06:42AM

Scrappymog

🤣🤣👍

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Funnyrabbit - 05 Jan, 2024 - 06:41PM

Paula99

You’re not wrong there 😂😂